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Silvina Luna
Country : Argentina
Height : 160 cm
Measurements : 87-61-91

Silvina Noelia Luna (born June 21, 1980) is an Argentine supermodel and actress born in Rosario, Santa Fe, Argentina.

Born in the city of Rosario, Silvina Luna wanted to study drama and get a job to help her family. After finishing school at the age of 17, she moved to Buenos Aires and worked as secretary and a model. She lived in Miami for a year with a friend. Back in Argentina she entered Big Brother 2 where she became famous as one of the participants.

Now she is in the model agency of Ricardo Piñeiro and has achieved lots of her dreams. She guest-starred in some important TV Shows and loves to work on stage as a comedian.

In a recent interview she revealed that in the future, she will start singing Tango songs.

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The Fatal Woman

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The Fatal Woman

Posted: 20 Sep 2009 02:54 PM PDT

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Giorgia Palmas

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2009-09-17T19:05:00.001-07:00

Giorgia Palmas, Hottest Tits Ever!?

Posted: 17 Sep 2009 10:11 AM PDT

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Giorgia Palmas

Giorgia Palmas

Country : Italy

Height : 171 cm

Measurements : 84-60-88

Giorgia Palmas (born on 5 March 1982 in Cagliari, Sardinia) is an Italian television personality. She became famous by appearances in the Italian television show Striscia la notizia.

Palmas began her career in the year 2000, winning second place at Miss World, losing out to Miss India Priyanka Chopra. In 2001, she was in Buona Domenica, as a microfonina. In 2002, she won the television show Veline, becoming the brunette velina, in pair with Elena Barolo, the new blonde velina. For two television seasons, 2002/2003 and 2003/2004, she was a velina in Striscia la notizia, gaining her a lot of popularity. After leaving Striscia la notizia she appeared in Italia 1 summer edition of Lucignolo, with Elena Barolo. In September of the same year she was in Rai 1 show, I Raccomandati. She was chosen to be testimonial of "Cotton Club" brand underwear. In February 2005, she appeared in a photoshoot on Max Magazine. In June 2005 she was in CD Live Estate on RAI 2. She has been confirmed also for the next season.

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How To Get A Girlfriend

2009-09-15T19:13:00.001-07:00

How To Get A Girlfriend

Posted: 15 Sep 2009 11:23 AM PDT

How To Get A Girlfriend

Finally, a fool proof method to get the girl you want! Read on

To get a girlfriend is one of the hardest accomplishments for many men, even pickup artists. So the question remains, how do you get a girlfriend? If you've yet to meet women, you should do that first. This guide is for guys or pickup artists who are casually involved with a woman and want them as their girlfriend. Because hey, once you meet a cool woman, you should learn how to keep her.

Step 1: How To Get A Girlfriend

First, you must understand that what works with pickup, does not necessarily work when you want a girlfriend. You should understand that on the whole, you need to be less "jerky" and more understanding in a few areas. I'm not advocating turning into a wuss and doing everything your girlfriend wants, far from it. I'm saying, if you want a girlfriend, you should start doing the things that a girlfriend expects. Share more feelings with her, open up with her on a less superficial level, and spend more time pleasing her into the bedroom than just yourself. A quote from Neil Strauss, "If you want a woman to be your girlfriend, then make sure she has a constant supply of orgasms. If you're missing that, then your girlfriend will likely leave soon."

Step 2: How To Get A Girlfriend

Second, you should definitely start involving her with other parts of your life. If you start seeing a woman three or more times a week you should realize that she might expect more than just a casual hookup. This is in your court, so don't make the mistake of saying "shes getting real clingy" when you've clearly been giving her those signals yourself. When you start to invite her to activities with your family, friends or work, you should realize that you are sending this woman signals that you want her to be your girlfriend.

Step 3: How To Get A Girlfriend

Third, you should now start putting off the vibe that she's more important to you than before. If you want a woman to be your girlfriend, start treating her the way a woman should be treated in public. There's no harm in being honest, and this is actually a super alpha male trait. By being honest with her, by saying something like, "I think you're great. If I play my cards right, you'll trick me into having you as my girlfriend." (With a BIG smile) Gauge the interactions, you can usually feel when a commitment of some sort is about to hit the fan.

Lastly, be mellow about the whole situation. Never act clingy – this is a unattractive quality that comes from scarcity and jealously. Let her bring up the girlfriend situation by herself. Trust me, if you're providing value to her life, she'll want to be your girlfriend. Give this at least a few months of dating, and never be predictable during that time. Follow the basic rules of pickup, until you're ready for the commitment of having her as your girlfriend. Then when you're ready come back and follow these rules to get a girlfriend.

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Shakira Isabel Mebarak Ripoll

2009-09-12T19:04:00.001-07:00

Shakira Isabel Mebarak Ripoll

Shakira Isabel Mebarak Ripoll
Ana Kournikova
Success Quotes
Quotes for Self-Motivation
Humorous Quotes on Love-Relationships
Seven Deadly Enemies That Stop You From Reaching Your Goals
Benefits of Laughing

Shakira Isabel Mebarak Ripoll

Posted: 12 Sep 2009 03:03 AM PDT

Shakira

Shakira Isabel Mebarak Ripoll (born: February 2, 1977) known simply as Shakira, is a Colombian singer-songwriter, musician, record producer, dancer and philanthropist who has been a major figure in the pop music scene of Latin America since the mid-1990s. She is a native Spanish speaker and also speaks fluent English, Portuguese, Italian, and some Arabic. In 2001, she broke through onto the English-speaking world with the release of Laundry Service, which sold over thirteen million copies worldwide.Shakira is the highest-selling Colombian artist of all time, having sold more than 60 million albums worldwide, according to BMI.She has also won numerous awards worldwide, including two Grammy Awards, eight Latin Grammy Awards, fifteen Billboard Music Awards, three MTV Video Music Awards, a People's Choice Award and receiving a Golden Globe nomination. She is also the only artist from South America to reach the number-one spot on the Billboard Hot 100, the Australian ARIA chart, the United World Chart and the UK Singles Chart.

According to the United World Chart, Shakira is as of 2008 the sixth most successful artist so far for the last decade, in terms of single sales. She is also the first, and currently only, artist to have two songs in the top ten of the most successful singles since 1999.Los Angeles Times declared Shakira "the most completely adapted crossover performer in contemporary pop music".
Shakira will be awarded with a star on the Hollywood Walk Of Fame, making her the first Colombian to receive this honor.

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Ana Kournikova

Posted: 12 Sep 2009 03:01 AM PDT

Ana Kournikova

Anna Kournikova

Anna Sergeevna Kournikova (Russian: Анна Сергеевна Ку́рникова, born 7 June 1981) is a semi-retired Russian professional tennis player and model. Anna Kournikova's celebrity status made her one of the best known tennis players worldwide. At the peak of her fame, fans looking for images of Anna Kournikova made her name (or misspellings of it) one of the most common search strings on the internet search engine Google.

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Success Quotes

Posted: 12 Sep 2009 02:43 AM PDT

Success Quotes

Success has different connotations for different people. While for
some it may mean making lots of money, to others it could mean
achieving one's goals in life, and for still others, it is about
fulfilling one's potential. No matter how one may define success, one
of the best ways to keep oneself on track is reading the success
quotes written by some of the best thinkers and successful people in
the world. Given below are some of the most profound success quotes,
which can keep one motivated to strive to achieve it.

"Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life - think of it, dream
of it, live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part
of your body, be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea
alone. This is the way to success, that is the way great spiritual
giants are produced." - Swami Vivekananda

"Courage is the discovery that you may not win, and trying when you
know you can lose." - Tom Crause

"The greatest barrier to success is the fear of failure." Sven Goran Eriksson

"Success is simple. Do what's right, the right way, at the right
time." - Arnold H. Glasgow

"They can because they think they can." - Virgil

"Success means having the courage, the determination, and the will to
become the person you believe you were meant to be." - George Sheehan

"Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from
achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong
mental attitude." - Thomas Jefferson

"Don't wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect.
There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect
conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you
will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more
self-confident and more and more successful." - Mark Victor Hansen

"Success is not measured by what you accomplish, but by the opposition
you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained
the struggle against overwhelming odds." - Orison Swett Marden

"Keep steadily before you the fact that all true success depends at
last upon yourself." - Theodore T. Hunger

"You are the embodiment of the information you choose to accept and
act upon. To change your circumstances you need to change your
thinking and subsequent actions." - Adlin Sinclair

"The first step toward success is taken when you refuse to be a
captive of the environment in which you first find yourself." - Mark
Caine

"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." -
Robert Collier

"Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success.
If you love what you are doing, you will be successful." - Herman Cain

"The thing always happens that you really believe in; and the belief
in a thing makes it happen." - Frank Loyd Wright

"You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play
better than anyone else." - Albert Einstein

"There is only one success--to be able to spend your life in your own
way." - Christopher Morley

"Success is focusing the full power of all you are on what you have a
burning desire to achieve." - Wilfred Peterson

"Success comes in cans; failure in can'ts" - Unknown Author

"The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack
of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack in will." -
Vince Lombardi

"Success means doing the best we can with what we have. Success is the
doing, not the getting; in the trying, not the triumph. Success is a
personal standard, reaching for the highest that is in us, becoming
all that we can be." - Zig Ziglar

"The road to success is always under construction" Lily Tomlin

"Success is the good fortune that comes from aspiration, desperation,
perspiration and inspiration." - Evan Esar

"For true success ask yourself these four questions: Why? Why not? Why
not me? Why not now?" - James Allen
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Quotes for Self-Motivation

Posted: 12 Sep 2009 02:42 AM PDT

Quotes for Self-Motivation

Self-motivation quotes can be used as important tools to help us reach
and obtains our goals. When talking about motivation, one of the main
things to do to make sure that you stay on the right path is to
constantly speak to yourself in an encouraging tone and use positive
words. And what better way to motivate yourself than by using
self-motivating quotes?

People choose different types of self-motivating quotes to empower
themselves and to give themselves that much needed inspiration and
enthusiasm to meet targets and achieve goals. While some choose to
focus on inspirational and religious quotes, others prefer to listen
to quotes that solely deal with business success. The important thing
however is to choose those quotes that make a difference to you.

Here are some quotes that work as self-motivation:

"Build upon strengths, and weaknesses will gradually take care of
themselves." - Joyce C. Lock

"Things will happen in your life that you can't stop, but that's no
reason to shut out the world. There's a purpose for the good and for
the bad" – Walter Sparrow, Now and Then.

"People become really quite remarkable when they start thinking that
they can do things. When they believe in themselves they have the
first secret of success." - Norman Vincent Peale

"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you
have imagined."- Henry David Thoreau

"If you have the courage to begin, you have the courage to succeed."-
David Viscott.

"Let our advance worrying become advance thinking and planning."-
Winston Churchill

"Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole
staircase, just take the first step." - Martin Luther King, Jr.

"The abundant life does not come to those who have had a lot of
obstacles removed from their path by others. It develops from within
and is rooted in strong mental and moral fiber."- William Mather
Lewis.

"Courage is about doing what you're afraid to do. There can be no
courage unless you're scared" – Eddie Rickenbacker.

"One of the most courageous things you can do is identify yourself,
know who you are, what you believe in and where you want to go." –
Sheila Murray Bethel.

"For every person who doubts you, tells you you will fail, try twice
as hard to prove them wrong." – Anonymous.

"Above all, challenge yourself. You may well surprise yourself at what
strengths you have, what you can accomplish." – Cecile Springer.

Don't' let the low times keep you down. Learn from them and reach for
the high times." – David Wiemers.

"Being committed to some goal in your life – a sense of having a
mission, a purpose, even a calling – is a very motivating, very
comforting thing. Some people's mission steps up to greet them, others
have to hunt theirs down." – Anonymous.

"Square your shoulders to the world, be not the kind to quit; It's not
the load that weighs your down but the way you carry it." – Anonymous.

"Accept everything about yourself. I mean everything. You are you, and
that is the beginning and the end; No apologies, no regrets." – Clark
Montanas.

"If you believe in yourself, things are possible." – Shannon Macmillan.

"The biggest mistake you can make is continually fearing you will make
one." – Anonymous.

"If you want to accomplish anything in life, you can't just sit back
and hope it will happen. You've got to make it happen." – Chuck
Norris.
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Humorous Quotes on Love-Relationships

Posted: 12 Sep 2009 02:41 AM PDT

Humorous Quotes on Love/Relationships:

"Gravitation can not be held responsible for people falling in love."
- Albert Einstein

"I recently read that love is entirely a matter of chemistry. That
must be why my wife treats me like toxic waste." - David Bissonette

"What the world really needs is more love and less paper work." - Pearl Bailey

"You can't put a price tag on love, but you can on all its
accessories." - Melanie Clark

"Many a man owes his success to his first wife and his second wife to
his success." - Jim Backus

"I told my wife the truth. I told her I was seeing a psychiatrist.
Then she told me the truth: that she was seeing a psychiatrist, two
plumbers, and a bartender." - Rodney Dangerfield

"I've often wanted to drown my troubles, but I can't get my wife to go
swimming." - Jimmy Carter

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Seven Deadly Enemies That Stop You From Reaching Your Goals

Posted: 12 Sep 2009 02:40 AM PDT

Seven Deadly Enemies That Stop You From Reaching Your Goals

What prevents your from achieving your goals? Find out all about the
enemies of personal goal setting!

Enlarge ImageEverybody on this planet has enemies, rivals and foes.
Call them any way you like, but nevertheless they exist, chasing you
at every step you make. Nobody knows where they come from, but the
fact of their existence was detected on the planet and still nobody
knows completely the effective remedy from them. They spoil our lives;
put the spokes in our wheel, making tricky endeavors to distract us.
The biggest nuisance they cause is that they prevent us from reaching
success in life. The only way out of this situation is to disclose
them and to wipe them out once and for all.

You'll be surprised to know that those enemies live within you.

Our greatest enemies, whom we must chiefly combat live inside of us.
So, what are those crafty enemies that hold us back from reaching our
goals?

7 Deadly Enemies of Your Goals

Enemy #1
For 33 percents of people it is shortage of time. They claim that 24
hours are always not enough for everything they have planned. Time is
of the essence, they say. And they try their best with 24 hours and
manage their time vary carefully, but in any case they constantly feel
the lack of time. Time is an illness causing fatigue.

Enemy #2
For 11 percents it is lack of motivation. These people feel that they
don't achieve their goal, because they don't know exactly why they are
aiming at it. As a result, they don't know how to persuade their mind
to achieve that goal. More often these people are satisfied with small
achievements.

Enemy #3
For other 33 percents of people it is lack of persistence. These
people just go with the stream, because they lack decisiveness and
perseverance. They can't get over the difficulties, they easily give
up and refuse from their dreams.

Enemy #4
For 22 percents the major enemy is their uncertainty. They don't know
what their goals are. These people just don't know what they want to
get from this life. Their life is one big question-mark for them.

Enemy #5
For some people it is fear, because they afraid to fail and get
frustrated. They get angry with themselves when they don't fulfill
their goals.

Enemy #6
For other people it is laziness. These people just idle and don't want
to make any effort to achieve their goals.

Enemy #7
Finally, for some people it is a lack of opportunity. Some people are
deprived of the opportunity to exhibit their talents and gifts.
Success is people-dependent factor. Often most of aspiring people are
driven away form their dreams on account of opportunity factors.

A common enemy of ours is the surrounding: jealous and envy people who
put obstacles on our way to success.

Now you know your enemies by their faces, so it will be easier for you
to fight against them.

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Benefits of Laughing

Posted: 12 Sep 2009 02:39 AM PDT

Benefits of Laughing

Everyday you must be laughing for different reasons. Have you ever
noticed, how you feel relaxed after laughing? There are a number of
health benefits of laughing and that's why, laughter is stated to be
the best medicine.

Every person laughs several times a day for different reasons - after
hearing a joke, watching a comedy movie or reading a comic book. Humor
is one of the important senses that human being is blessed with.
Laughing expresses a feeling of happiness. Humor and laughter are
contagious and they cause a cumulative effect of amusement and joy. In
addition, they offer a number of positive health benefits.

Laughter makes it easier for us to cope with different challenges in
life. It improves and strengthens our immune system and helps prevent
a number of diseases. Laughter therapy can be used to cure several
diseases such as hypertension, ulcers, arthritis, stroke, diabetes and
even heart diseases. It offers good relaxation and helps you relieve
stress and depression. Read on to know about benefits of laughing in
detail.

Benefits of Laughing

Laughing is not just related to facial expressions, but it causes a
number of chemical changes within the body. Good hearty laughter helps
release enzymes and hormones that are helpful for normal functioning
of various organs. This is due to a connection between laughing and
stimulation of brain and different glands. Laughter enhances the body
to release natural antihistamines. It also activates T-cells, a
natural anti-biotic produced in the body. It helps boost the immune
system and fight infections. It prevents numerous diseases by
strengthening the immune system.

Laughter reduces the levels of certain hormones, namely cortisol,
growth hormone, epinephrine and dopac, which are associated with
stress response. Thus it helps relieve stress, depression, anxiety,
grief, anger and irritation. Laughing also decreases pain by releasing
a hormone, endorphins. It improves our attentiveness, pulse and heart
rate.

Laughing is proven to be very beneficial for the people suffering from
hypertension. It helps lower the blood pressure to normal. Laughing
causes deeper breathing and increase in blood flow, due to which
oxygen and essential nutrients are supplied to all body parts.

Laughter is a good workout for respiratory, abdominal, leg, back and
facial muscles. It tones intestinal functioning, massages abdominal
organs and strengthens abdominal muscles. This activity is
advantageous for digestion as well as absorption. Laughter also helps
burn calories and is beneficial for weight loss.

In addition to physical health benefits, laughing offers several
psychological health benefits. It boosts self-confidence and gives
mental strength to cope with conflicts and challenges in life. It also
helps us come out of anxiety and depression. It improves out mental
health and makes us forget all the tensions in our daily busy lives.

Laughing enhances our ability to connect with others. It also causes a
number of behavioral changes. It makes us energized and increases our
interest in daily activities.

Laughing also offers many social benefits. A person with a smiling
face is always popular amongst a group. It lessens the distance
between two individuals and brings them together. It increases healthy
communication with others.

Laughter positively affects many aspects of your life, including your
health, well-being and energy, leading to a healthy, quality life. So
always smile, it improves your face value too.

Winners and Losers

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Winners and Losers

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Winners and Losers

Posted: 11 Sep 2009 01:23 AM PDT

Winners and Losers

"She's a winner!" He's a real loser". We frequently hear people
labeled as winners or losers. We seem to instinctively know the
difference.

Many years ago, I saved a poem that discusses the difference between
winners and losers. I don't know who wrote it, but I'll tip my hat to
her or him, because the poem captured the essence of character that
distinguishes winners from losers. I'll share it with you now with my
thoughts.

BE A WINNER!

Right here in the title is an acknowledgment of what most people want.
To be a winner. To feel like a winner. With all the talk of win- win
thinking, we still want to be a winner and to enjoy the positive
emotions that accompany being a winner.

Winners make commitments

Losers make promises

While some people do treat their promises as commitments, many make
empty promises knowing that they may not actually perform. The meaning
of this stanza is clear; When winners make a commitment, they see it
through to completion. You can count on a winner to come through.

Winners go through a problem

Losers go around it, never get past it

This little-known secret of winners is powerful. When encountering a
problem, don't just work around it this one time. Why not over-
respond? Solve the problem then keep going to solve the source of the
problem. Fix it for good, not just for now.

Winners say, "Let's find out"

Losers say, "Nobody knows"

An insatiable curiosity allows winners to explore the source of
opportunities as well as the source of problems. This makes it more
likely that the winner will develop even more opportunities while
solving the source of recurring problems. It also turns out that
genuine curiosity about other people is one of the secrets to
increasing sales, improving customer service and strengthening
relationships.

Winners always have a plan

Losers always have an excuse

Have you noticed that successful people seem to know where they're
going and what they want? It's no coincidence that winners have a
plan. The process of thinking through the issue of what's important,
allows the winners to keep a clear vision of the future and outline a
path to get there. They routinely examine their mission by asking
"where am I going with this", and "how will I accomplish my goals?"

Winners say "There's a better way"

Losers say, "It's the way it's always been done"

Continuous improvement is one of the hallmarks of successful people.
Their motto is "If it's worth doing, it's worth doing better". Losers
just keep on doing the same old things yet they expect different
results.

Winners are always involved in the answer

Losers are always part of the problem

Winners are not whiners. Instead of complaining about a problem (or
just sitting there being part of the problem), winners jump in looking
for a solution. No blame, no pointing fingers, no belly- aching. Just
fix it and move on.

Winners know there is still much to learn

Losers want to be considered an expert before knowing how little is known

We've all encountered people who want to be "the expert", even though
their expertise is out-of-date, incomplete, or overestimated. You
won't find them in classes, in the library or in deep debate. Winners
understand that knowledge has a short shelf-life. Winners also
appreciate that, to be valuable to clients, they must constantly
explore the limits of their knowledge.

Winners learn from their mistakes

Losers learn only not to make mistakes by not trying anything different

Winners are opportunistic about learning from daily experiences. All
of us have hundreds of experiences each day that could be valuable
learning opportunities. Losers ignore them and surf the shallow
surface of their knowledge. Winners understand that learning in
today's fast-paced and ever- changing environment can't be left to
chance. Successful people make a conscious effort to actively seek new
ideas, innovation and growth.

There you have it. Is this the complete list of the characteristics of
successful people? Surely not. There are as many types of winners as
there are winners. To me, the poem addresses the fundamental qualities
of being a winner. It captures the spirit of open-mindness, strength
and compassion that makes winners and winning attractive.

Be a winner!

Your 12 Point Plan for Personal Success

Posted: 11 Sep 2009 01:18 AM PDT

Your 12 Point Plan for Personal Success
by Stephan Iscoe
http://LinktoSuccess.com
No one becomes successful by accident. Success requires making a plan
and sticking to it. It is simple, but does require commitment; it is
not hard to do, but does require hard work. The good news is that once
you begin, the results start coming almost instantly. The miracle of
successful living is that the smallest step towards success attracts
more success! Here is a very brief outline of the key points that will
help you achieve the highest levels of success.

1. Look into the nearest mirror - the person staring back at you is
the only person responsible for your success. Smile! No one else is
the cause of your success or to blame for your short comings.
Successful people take full responsibility for their actions.

2. Smile back at your reflection. Successful people are cheerful,
optimistic, and forward thinking. If you think you don't have anything
to smile about, smile anyway. Positive thoughts drive out negative
thoughts. It's hard to have a negative thought while you are smiling!

3. Positive self-esteem is the foundation for success. Feel good about
yourself and your abilities, achievements and potential. Don't dwell
on your mistakes. Remind and praise yourself on your past
accomplishments. Congratulate yourself for taking positive steps
toward a more successful future.

4. Believe in yourself. You are here for a purpose. God doesn't make
extras just to fill in the scenery. Find your mission and begin
working to fulfill it.

5. Desire to be a success. Decide right now that you will be
successful. Commit to being successful.

6. Associate with successful people. Do what they do. When faced with
choices, make the choice a successful person would make. Blow your
bonus check on a gambling trip or invest it?

7. Avoid unsuccessful people. Do not under any circumstances associate
with negative people. Negative people are toxic; they destroy, they do
not build. They are vampires that can live only by draining the life
from others. The odds are greater that they will pull you down faster
than you can lift them up. You can choose to stay away from all the
negative people in your life. Avoid all the whiners, complainers,
blamers and thumbsuckers.

8. Do what you are best at and what you get the most satisfaction
from. There is no reason to stay stuck doing things that are
frustrating, boring, unhealthy, unproductive, demeaning or
unfulfilling.

9. Write down a vision of how you want to live your life. Be specific.
Where you want to live, what kind of carpet, who your friends are,the
pony's name, what the new church rec hall you donated looks like, etc.
Make a Future Scrapbook; paste in pictures, drawings, essays,
clippings. Make up news headlines about your achievements. Every day
visualize yourself as you would like to be - and then act that way!

10. Write down your biggest goal, the one you most want to fulfill.
Write it in the present tense, "I am...", "I have...", "I
contribute...". Success is the result of a personal decision, so start
your goal with "I". Read your goal aloud every morning and night. Tell
people your goal. Make a plan to achieve your goal and stick to it.

11. Study the science of success. Read books, listen to tapes, watch
videos and positive TV programming. Talk to successful people and ask
them how they became successful. Fill your mind with positive thoughts
and give yourself positive self-affirmations.

12. Every day do something that brings you closer to your goal. Never
give up. You can only fail if you quit trying. Keep on keeping on and
you will succeed. Achieving success requires following a system. Begin
today by putting these 12 points into daily practice. Everybody
experiences fear of failure, uncertainty, insecurity, low self-esteem,
indecision, depression, nervousness and embarrassment. Successful
people master these temporary conditions by taking positive action, by
sticking to their plan, by maintaining their vision of the future, by
learning from setbacks and by rededicating themselves to the pursuit
of their mission. By following these simple steps you will become
successful and achieve all that you desire.

How to Command, Influence and Control People

Posted: 11 Sep 2009 01:17 AM PDT

How to Command, Influence and Control People
by H.Bangambiki
http://www.laughingtonpost.com

The Styles and Methods of Power

Power is the ability to get things done--your way. Sometimes it's a
direct order that you give, sometimes a suggestion you make, or a
request or the asking of a favor; but the result (if you have power)
is always that the other person acts and you derive a benefit from
the other person's actions.

One can have power in many different ways. You have it over your
employees because you pay their salaries. If you are an expert in a
special field, it's because you know the best way to handle matters.
In a legal dispute, it's because you have the law on your side. If
you have credit cards, it can be part of your life style to go into a
store, hotel or restaurant, in any city, and order whatever you wish.
In politics, it's because folks will give you their votes, hoping that
you'll work and succeed in getting the government to serve them in
their area. And there's the power that derives from being talented,
charming and capable; of being up-to-the-minute and knowledgeable, so
people know if they let you handle things for them or listen to your
advice, they'll come out ahead.

One more aspect of power. This concerns competition. If all the world
were fair and equal, one would have no need for the upper hand, for
the advantage, for power. But, of course, the world isn't. Which often
means that in a competitive situation you cannot merely settle for an
equal chance. You must keep your eyes and ears, and indeed all your
faculties, open for any clue or other tips that will move the balance
in your favor. Whenever possible, make sure you get more than an
equal chance.

You have to look the part

People are impressed by how a man looks. They are often not aware of
exactly why they treat one man like a VIP and another gets the bum's
rush. Their reactions maybe subliminal, below their conscious
awareness. But take it from me, if you're well dressed, neatly
groomed, hair
trimmed, etc., and are driving a snazzy car, you'll be well received;
while a guy who's wearing sloppy clothes, unshaven and unclean, and
who's driving an old heap, will hardly get any attention at all. Look
as good as you can; and back it up in other ways.

Add the other elements of power image too. Clothing--it's worth
investing some money to be well dressed. Buy suits on time payments
if you can (a credit card is very useful for this).

1.That way the clothes are helping to get power, and therefore money,
for you while you are paying for
them.
2.Don't forget about the car you drive around in; if the one you have
is not impressive then rent one that is. Rental cars don't cost that
much and driving a good one pays dividends in the power sphere.
3.Try to join clubs and organizations (business, social, political)
that have important and influential members. If at first you can't
become a member, then maneuver a member into taking you as his guest.

Money and power beget money and power; the more they think you have,
the more you'll get.

We must repeat that, for most people, those who belong to the power
elite are those that appear to belong to it. Unless recognized
personally, a millionaire will be turned away from a class restaurant
if he's not well dressed.

You have to consciously act the part of one who is used to being in command

There's another extremely important factor in appearing to already
have money and power beyond what I mentioned above and that is your
own manner of doing things. You must move, speak and act power. Have
you ever met the grandson of a man who amassed a fortune and wondered
how a grandfather who did so much could have a grandson who seems like
such a weakling? It's true; that grandson could never get rich on his
own; if he hadn't inherited his family's money, he'd be poor because
he's weak and incompetent. And it shows. The men who, like yourself,
are capable of making money now, are men who can act in a strong style
that almost seems to draw money like a magnet. Language, and the way
you speak, can say as much as the ideas in your words. Equally
important, however, is your body language, that is the way you stand,
walk, move and sit and the gestures you make.

Be the man who's in demand

Power isn't just you being able to call someone and tell him what to
do; it's also other men calling you and asking for your business or
wanting to associate with you. If you're a man who seems to possess a
wide knowledge of the world, an awareness of trends, if you're the
early-bird who
catches sight of opportunities first, if you're the man who's capable
of handling many different kinds of situations, then people will seek
you out. They'll invite you to vacation at their country homes, to
meet their influential associates, to join their social clubs and
their business syndicates. And when they do, all of these will
enhance your image of power, and widen your power base so you can
zoom ahead even more.

When the fight for power gets harder

Everything we've said so far will be useful in just about every
situation; but when the struggle for power gets more intense, some
other methods are needed. When the person(s) you're talking to has
been open-minded and your powers of persuasion have been working from
the moment you first started talking, the usual techniques can be
used. But what if you're dealing with someone whose mind is closed to
your ideas and influence from the start, or who feels he is in direct
competition with you? Then things must be handled somewhat
differently.

Most important, be in control of the situation at all times. If you
feel your control is slipping, do something to regain it. You could
do something vividly dramatic and totally bewildering to the other
person, like suddenly shouting or pounding on your desk. Or you could
press a secret buzzer to have someone rush in and interrupt when the
other side is coming on too strong.

Never ever get into a power struggle when you're at any kind of a
disadvantage; if you're tired or if the discussion turns to a subject
in which the other guy is an expert. Always focus your own mental
energy and project your thoughts into his mind. Look him in the eyes,
try to gain his confidence. Always have a picture in your mind of a
victory over this person bigger than the victory you need to achieve
your aims. And whatever you do don't lose; that is, if you realize
that you can't beat him, then leave. It's better not to have a
victory than to have a defeat.

Say Whatever does the Trick

Making a lot of money is largely a process of convincing people, of
selling yourself, your service, your product. And the trick is to
tell them what they want to hear. The problem is to find out what they
want to hear. So you'll start out by giving them basic information
about what you're
selling. You then continue with your sales approach, always watching
their reactions carefully. When you see their eyes light up and they
then lean forward with interest, then continue on the topic that
aroused that interest, no matter how odd it may seem to you. And do
the opposite
when you reach any of the usual parts of your presentation, if the
prospect shows less than the normal amount of interest; that is,
shorten that part and go on to the next.

From start to finish

You start out by telling them what the product or service is or does.
The kinds of benefits people get from using it and some examples of
ways, both usual and unusual, that other folks have used it. It often
helps to mention that "Mr. Anderson, you know, the big shot, just
bought two of
them for his own use," or that "the XYZ Corporation recently bought
seven of them for their executives." Or if you're selling a more
heavy duty item, that "Smith's Construction Company has been using
them for years." If it's almost a custom made item tell them they're
one of the select
few who will even get a chance to buy it. If you have an opportunity
to talk to his wife or a friend of his, plan along with that other
person and have them unknowingly hinting to the customer that "it
certainly sounds like a good deal." If his kids are with him, get
them to needle him into buying it. Use any method that works.

Suppose the guy seems convinced but he can't seem to make up his mind
to actually hand over the money or sign the contract to make the
purchase. Sometimes it helps to imply that he really can't afford it.
He might buy it just to show you he isn't poor or a cheapskate.
Another great strategy that sometimes works in desperation to close a
sale is to make him feel guilty if he doesn't buy. Imply that he
deliberately wasted your time and energy, that he's rotten and
thoughtless, that he just wanted to make a phony impression on his
wife or girl friend or anyone who is there with him. You might want to
say all this very loudly, almost yelling, so that a crowd gathers and
you shame him into buying. Or you can try another method to clinch the
sale, offer him a "special bonus." Say you'll give him a longer time
to pay, or a contract for "free" servicing or that you'll add on a
bonus of another item "free". Actually he may have been entitled to
this "extra" all along, but if you haven't yet mentioned it, then
now's the time. Try to keep one or two things in reserve as your last
pieces of ammunition.

Prepare in advance so you know the other man's point of view; if
you're able to benefit him, he'll practically jump at the chance to
let you make money off him. Tell him what he wants to hear. And above
all, keep eyes and ears open for any information, clues or tip-offs,
favorable or unfavorable, that will give you the power to persuade
him.

In the power battle called life, victory will go to those who find the
right weapons and use them. So keep your weapons handy; get a head
start and don't lose it. Be alert for clues you can use to your
advantage. Present yourself with confidence; broadcast your will
power, speak and move with assurance, and, to make sure they get the
message, have the clothes car, office and the other outer appearances
of power and money. People tend to believe what they see, and if you
look like you've got it made, then you will have it made.

How To Master The Art Of Compromise

In many cases all you will be able to get by being persistent is a
compromise. Compromises are good. They get you one step[ further that
you were in the first place. If for some reason, such as self respect,
you can't accept a compromise, then don't. Give whatever you can
offer. If you do this you may not get any type of settlement in your
favor. Here are steps that will show you how to compromise so that you
get the best of the bargain:

Tell The Person Exactly What You Want

Tell the person exactly what you want in terms he will understand: "I
want more..."

Persist

You must get past the other's person's excuses and alibis. You must be
persistent until you feel you have hit the other person's
bottom line. You may find that the other person is trying to
manipulate you. Be persistent until that person has stopped all
his manipulation.

If You Are Unsure

If you don't know what they want, then don't make a decision. You must
think the situation over before you make a compromise. If you need
more time, tell the other person that you need more time. Make sure
that you can live with the compromise you have made before you make
it.

How To Deal With Useless Criticism

Some criticism you get is in poor taste. We must know how to deal with
criticism such as: "You look terrible today" or, "You left this in my
way, you idiot." Make sure this kind of criticism useless, follow
these steps.

Agree With The Facts

Agree with the facts the other person presents. For example, in
response to "You look terrible today," say, "I haven't been feeling
too well lately"; in response to "You left this in my way you idiot,"
say, "Yes, I did leave it in your way." Answer only what was actually
said, not what was implied.

How To Answer

Stay calm and collected during the whole conservation. Don't lose your
temper. The only way a person will make you feel degraded is if you
degrade yourself. You don't want to waste your time which this type of
person, so don't defend yourself or attack him.

If You Made A Mistake

If you made a mistake, accept that fact. Don't accept the quilt for
the mistake. If you were in error, then apologize. If you apologize,
don't make a big thing out of it. Don't tell them how dreadfully sorry
you are, etc. Just give them a plain "I'm sorry."

How To Deal With Important Criticism

When you get important criticism, you want to know how to get the best
out of it. Useful criticism is one of the best ways to make
yourself into a better person. Follow these steps to get the most out
of useful criticism.

Ask For Feedback

Find out exactly what others object to about you. If someone tells you
"You are bad," that's not good enough. Find out exactly
why that person thinks that way. Be very persisent find out why the
other person feels the way he does. Vague criticism is worthless to
you.

Guess At Reason

If a person refuses to give you reasons for criticizing you, keep
guessing at your faults until you get the right one. This may be
the only way to find out what displeases the other person.

Don't Be Defensive

If you act defensively, you may not be able to benefit from useful
criticism. Don't be sarcastic or intimidate the other
person. You want to learn how to become a better person from the criticism.

Ask the person how you can change your objectionable behavior; be open
to reasonable suggestions.

How To Get Your Coworkers And Your Superiors To Like You

Good relations with your co workers and your superiors will not only
help you but will make work more enjoyable. Every employee
wants to be liked by other employees. If you treat people the way they
want to be treated, they will like you. Some of us don't
know if what we do is objectionable to others. I am going to give you
a list of things that attract other people to you and things
they find objectionable. When you move up in the company, you will
need all the support you can get.

Praise People

Everybody enjoys being praised. People look for approval of themselves
in others. But you should praise people only when they
deserve it. If you praise people when they don't deserve it, or if you
praise too much, you lose your credibility. Don't
exaggerate your praise. Make the praise as warm and sincere as you can.

Don't Put People Down

Putting down a person can be very damaging to you and the other
person's relationship wit you. People don't want to feel degraded
by being called stupid, crazy, weird, etc. Don't put down anyone even
if they are not present. If you do, the word will get back
to them and you will look bad. Always talk positively about people.
Even if you don't like them, still speak highly of them you will be
amazed at what this does. If you must say something bad, don't say
anything at all.

Don't Be Concerned With Your Interests Only

here is nothing wrong with caring and looking out for yourself. Just
don't make it noticeable to other people. You will be
resented by other people if you seem selfish. Make sure others know
you look out for them as well yourself.

Share The Credit

When others have helped you accomplish something, share the credit
with them. Even if their contribution was not as great as
yours, still share the credit with them. You will be surprised

Don't Ask Others To Do For You What You Won't Do For Them

If you are unwilling to go out of your way for people, don't expect
them to go out of their way for you. Set the first
example if you help them, they will help you.

Always Show Appreciation

Everyone wants approval and recognition for what they have done. If
someone helps you in any way, tell him how much you appreciate his
actions. If you don't, he may not help you again. This is what you
should tell people when you show your appreciation: "I really
appreciate the way you..."; "Thank you very much for..."; "You are
very good at...": "I really want to tell you how much I
appreciated..."; "You were very nice to..." Don't show too much
approval and recognition or it will lose its credibility.

Don't "Show Up" Others

When you "show up" others you do it at their expense. "Showing up"
people in front of others takes away their self respect. If
you are better than others, they will know it you don't have to degrade them.

Treat Small Things With Importance

Some things that seem small to you mean a great deal to others. Don't
ignore small problems; help people solve them. Treating
small problems with importance shows other people you care.

Care About People

Everybody is concerned about themselves and it is important for them
to have someone to care for them. They are touched when you care about
them. Helping people cope with life makes people feel that you care
about them.

Don't Criticize A Person In Front Of Others

If you criticise someone in front of others, he will always resent
you. It is one of the most degrading things you can do. If you
criticize someone, criticize him constructively and privately.

Give People Your Undivided Attention

All people want to fell important. To make a person feel important you
must give him your undivided attention when communicating with him.
Get rid of all interruptions. Make sure you have good eye contact and
that you are not playing with objects.

Be Courteous, Tactful, Polite and Diplomatic

Everyone appreciates people who are courteous,tactful, polite and
diplomatic. The best way to learn these qualities is from others.
Study someone you would like to be like and learn how he conducts himself.

Be Confident

If you don't have confidence in yourself, others will not have
confidence in you, either. People admire and respect confident
people. If you show others doubt, they will treat you with doubt. Be
sure of yourself and play down your insecurities.

Winners and Losers

"She's a winner!" He's a real loser". We frequently hear people
labeled as winners or losers. We seem to instinctively know the
difference.

BE A WINNER!

Winners make commitments

Losers make promises

Winners go through a problem

Losers go around it, never get past it

Winners say, "Let's find out"

Losers say, "Nobody knows"

Winners always have a plan

Losers always have an excuse

Winners say "There's a better way"

Losers say, "It's the way it's always been done"

Winners are always involved in the answer

Losers are always part of the problem

Winners know there is still much to learn

Losers want to be considered an expert before knowing how little is known

Winners learn from their mistakes

Losers learn only not to make mistakes by not trying anything different

Be a winner!

To your Success

H.Bangambiki
http://www.laughingtonpost.com

How to Quickly Get Out Of Debt

Posted: 11 Sep 2009 01:16 AM PDT

How to Quickly Get Out Of Debt
H. Bangambiki
http://www.dailywebpro.com

Lesson 1: Setting the Foundation

Key points

1.As a financial topic, debt is simple. There are no complicated
secrets, but -- unfortunately -- there are no easy solutions either.
It's going to take discipline to bury the debt monster. Anybody who
says otherwise is probably just after your money.

2.It doesn't take a reckless person or a wild spending spree to create
a debt crisis. A consistent pattern of spending just a little more
than you make, over time, can lead to a serious problem.

3.Compound interest is a powerful force that works either for you or
against you. If you want this force on your side, you'll have to rise
above the advertisers and bankers that are used to having the force on
their side.

4."Good debts" combine a low, tax-adjusted interest rate with the
potential to gain something that appreciates in value.</strong>

Welcome to The How to Get Out Of Debt site quick course on beating
debt! We are highly committed to turning net debtors into net savers,
replacing the slavery of monthly payments with the joy of expanding
investments. We sincerely hope that this series is a big step in that
direction for you.

Since you've decided to take a debt seminar, we're going to guess that
money problems are at least nipping at your heels. Or perhaps - worst
case - an overwhelming debt burden is pushing you to the edge of
financial disaster. Since we don't know exactly where you are, we take
a big-picture approach in this first lesson.

If debt is not currently a problem - you're just here to learn and
head off future problems - let's get started with the basics of
managing debt and the fundamentals upon which you will build your
financial success.

Beating Debt Is Simple, But Not Easy

Getting out of debt and staying out of debt is actually pretty simple,
at least compared to most money management topics. It boils down to
spending less money than you make, on a consistent, long-term basis.
That's it. Nothing else will get the job done. Nothing.

And it's easy too. Right? Wrong! While conquering debt won't send you
scrambling for thick math textbooks, it's an ocean away from easy. One
moment of weakness - or worse, one cruel act of fate - and you're
scratching and clawing your way back out of the hole. It's not easy.

So, how did something so simple get to be so hard? Because beating
debt demands a lot of will power over a long period of time. If you've
been a human being for any length of time, you know that this is one
tough combination to nail down.

We know we're preaching and it's a pretty depressing sermon. But we're
afraid there's no getting around it. Over the long term, regularly
spending more than you make - even just a little more - will bring
your financial house down, even if you are the most responsible of
bill payers. Until this basic lesson is taken to heart, even
bankruptcy is just a temporary solution.

How Careful Do You Have to Be?

Consider two simple examples, starting with a positive one. Let's say
that you begin setting aside $75 every month, in savings earning 5%
interest. If you can pull this off for five years, you'll end up with
a comforting $5,100 in emergency savings.

Now, let's turn this picture on its head, and assume that you come up
short by the same $75 per month, on average, over the same five years.
Further, assume that you routinely patch over this difference with a
credit card. Note that we're talking about less than $20 per week here
- hardly a symptom of reckless "retail therapy." Nonetheless, at the
end of five years you'll be looking at more than $7,200 in debt,
assuming an 18% credit card interest rate.

That's an extra $2,100 in debt, beyond the $5,100 earned by saving $75
per month. This is the difference between saving and paying down debt.
Saving is hard enough, but paying down debt is $2,100 harder!

And this difference just gets bigger as time goes on. While your bank
savings work hard twenty-four hours a day to make you more money, any
outstanding credit card debt is likely to be working three times
harder, charging a much higher interest rate than your savings pay.

Moreover, as a saver you have the force of compound interest on your
side, the idea that your balance starts to snowball as you earn
interest not only on your deposits but also on the interest payments
you leave in the account. As a debtor, this same powerful compounding
force works against you, and the higher the interest rate, the faster
the snowball builds.

Good Debt versus Bad Debt

We've been talking tough about consumer debt, but we do realize that
some debts are an inescapable part of life for most of us. Still, even
when we carry debt, there are some basic debt management rules that
will keep the lid on problems:

* Be especially wary of double-digit debt - credit cards and loans
that charge 10% or more in annual interest. At this level, balances
snowball quickly, and it's tough to get a return on the borrowed money
that beats this cost.

* Good debts, like some mortgages and student loans, combine two things:
1) a relatively low, tax-adjusted interest rate; and
2) the potential to invest in something that, over the long run, will
grow in value.

* Ignore banker's rules for "acceptable" levels of debt. These are
designed by banks to maximize their income. Their calculations
cleverly keep you far enough under water that you continue to pay them
interest, but not so deep that you go broke. Don't be a slave. Set
tighter rules on your own.

Summary - The Personal Finance Divide

Somewhere in every mountain range there is a line that divides water
flow. On one side of the line, for example, water flows east. On the
other, it flows west. Regardless of direction, these rivers and
streams start out as a trickle but quickly pick up speed as they head
down the mountain, finishing as raging torrents.

Money and wealth work exactly the same way. Over time, you'll end up
on either the savings or the debt side of the personal finance divide.
It doesn't take much to nudge you one way or the other, but once a
direction is established, the momentum tends to build and it gets
harder and harder to go back.

If you want to "nudge" yourself in the savings direction, just
remember that it all boils down to spending less money than you make,
on a consistent long-term basis. (We're hoping you've noticed that
this is an important point.)

Lesson 2: Six Steps to Eliminating Credit Card Debt
Key points
Unpaid credit card balances are the worst kind of debt. Come up with a
plan for paying these off, and make it a priority. We offer six steps
to get you started.
Personal finance is confusing enough without a stack of credit cards
to track. Your goal should be to carry only one or two credit cards
with balances paid in full every month.
Now that you have a sense of "good debt" and "bad debt," you might be
worrying about one thing: that you have way too much of the bad stuff!
(Or maybe not: if you're keeping the bad debt to a minimum, give
yourself a pat on the back.)
If you're like many people, though, you're staring at a big pile of
credit card debt that is costing you plenty in monthly payments. Not
to worry, though, because in this lesson we're going to talk about how
you can pay that debt down, and keep your credit card use under
control in the future.
Pay Down That Credit Debt
There are millions of Americans out there who have paid off heavy
credit card debt, and now it's your turn to join them. It won't be
enough, however, to just make minimum monthly payments. Here are six
bigger steps you can take to get your debt under control:
Stop using your cards. The last thing you want to do with heavy credit
card debt is add to it. Take all your credit cards out of your wallet
or purse, and leave them at home (though you may want to keep one for
emergencies -- and, no, a really great sale or a cool new CD player
does not qualify as an emergency).

Cut up the cards if that's what it takes to stop using them. Some
people keep their cards out of reach by freezing them in glasses of
water.

Stop the flood of credit card offers. You can force credit bureaus to
stop selling your name and address. Dial 1-888-5-OPTOUT to get the
forms. If you're searching for a low interest card, don't wait for it
to come to you. Visit a site like cardweb.com or bankrate.com to do
your own research.

Always pay more than the minimum. The credit card companies are not
just being nice when they require only a small minimum payment on your
total balance. They calculate this minimum to extend your payments for
as long as possible, to boost their profits. Scrimp if you need to,
and pay as much as you can above the minimum every month.

Plan your attack. Don't just throw yourself at a mountain of debt
without preparation. How many cards do you have? What interest rates
do they charge? Which have the highest balances? Write down your
balances for each card, and their interest rates.

Generally, you'll want to start by paying off the card with the
highest rate first, and then the next highest, and so on. If you want
a quick boost, go ahead and pay off a card with a low balance, just to
have one paid-off card under your belt.

Reduce the interest rate. Most credit cards charge anywhere from 16%
to 20%, which is huge! But you can negotiate with your credit card
company for a lower rate. Particularly if you've had any of your cards
for a while, take advantage of being a faithful customer, and call
them up to demand a lower rate. Shoot for 11% or 12%. You'd be
surprised at how easy it is.

Consolidate your debts. OK, so you know what the interest rates and
outstanding balances are for each of your cards, and you've reduced
the rate on at least some of them. Next, consider combining your debts
onto one or two of your lowest rate cards, if you've got some credit
room on them. (If you're maxed out on those cards, then forget it.)
Simply call your lender and ask how to transfer funds.
If you're making payments well above the minimum, have reduced the
interest rates on your cards, and have consolidated your debt, then
you're in good shape with your credit card debt. We'll discuss
additional steps you may need to take for better overall debt
management in Lesson Four.
How Many Cards Are Enough?
In the end, your goal is to carry only one or two credit cards, and
pay off the balances each month. If you've gotten carried away and
have five, six, or more cards, consider the benefits of closing out
most of them:
Simplicity. Fewer cards will be easier to track. In addition, you'll
have a much better sense of your overall debt level when it's on one
or two cards, rather than spread across a bunch of them.
Better credit record. You'll want to have at least one credit card to
help build your credit history. If you're married, your spouse should
have at least one card in his or her name only, for the same reason.
Too many cards can hurt your credit rating, particularly if they all
have large unpaid balances.
Less temptation. The more cards you have, the easier it is to
rationalize excessive spending. "After all, this card only has $500 on
it!" (Never mind that you've got two more that are carrying $5,000
each.) But, remember that your card's credit limits are not like poker
bets: you don't have to match (or much less "raise") them. Fewer
cards, lower balances: that's your goal.

Lesson 3: The "B" Word
Key points
Discipline is great, but you'll also need information if you plan to
cut down on spending. This information comes from a budget. Even a
simple, top-level budget can be surprisingly valuable.
Short-term savings goals are a great way to enforce spending
discipline. Keep giving yourself the occasional treat, but get in the
habit of planning for them.
As we said at the outset of the seminar, beating debt is simple, but
not easy. For one thing, we are relentlessly driven by advertisers to
"keep up" with our friends and neighbors. Moreover, every time we turn
around we are confronted by the opportunity to get it now and worry
about paying for it later. Some credit card companies go so far as to
tell us that we "deserve" more stuff (sweet, aren't they?).
If you want to rise above all of this and take control of your
finances, you'll need a different perspective and the motivation to
act accordingly. So, the next time you're about to spend money that
you don't have on something that you don't really need, don't waste
your time feeling guilty (when has this ever worked anyway?). Instead,
ask yourself two basic questions:
If I can't pay for it in full this month, what is going to change next
month? Where will the extra income or reduced spending come from? Be
specific.

What fun, motivational one-year savings goal am I working towards?
Question One: B is for Budget
If you read question number one carefully, it's obvious that it can't
be answered effectively without a good understanding of how much money
is coming in every month and exactly where it's being spent. Creating
a detailed budget is obviously the best way to develop this kind of
insight but, for some reason, it's also among the toughest of personal
finance tasks to pull off. On the surface, it doesn't seem so
difficult, but it's amazing how few people actually complete the task.
If you're among those who have succeeded in setting up a budget,
please accept our heartiest congratulations. You'll skate through the
workbook exercises.
If you're in the much bigger group, however -- those of us who don't
budget, or haven't gotten to it yet -- don't give up yet. In the
workbook exercise, we'll get you started with a shortcut budget with
just enough work to make your question one answers pack a good punch.
Question Two: Motivation
Developing a budget, saving money, and sending out debt payments make
for a pretty dull life. You have to let a little sun shine in, or
you're bound to collapse under the strain and give up. One good way to
add some zest to the game -- while providing a motivational edge at
the same time -- is to come up with a fun one-year savings goal.
So, sit down and think about it. If there is a spouse and children
involved -- who will surely be wondering why money is suddenly so
tight -- get them in on the reward planning too. Together, come up
with something fun that will keep you all focused.

Lesson 4: Avoiding Setbacks
Key points
Don't attack debt so aggressively that you risk trading good debt for bad.
Planning for emergencies is a key element to any debt management
strategy. In particular, don't trade unsecured debt for secured unless
you are well prepared for financial emergencies.
So far, when we've discussed the details of debt, we've focused mainly
on credit cards. In this lesson, we'll expand the topic and consider
some common questions regarding other forms of debt.
Q. Once my credit card debt is under control, should I aggressively
pay down any car loans? Student loans? My mortgage?
A. Ideally, we'd all be 100% debt free. But, for many of us, this just
isn't a practical option, at least not in the near term. And if we
have to carry a little debt, we at least want to control the terms.
The risk in paying down debt too aggressively is that we can lose
control of the terms. This is where saving for an emergency enters the
picture.
For example, let's say that -- in an effort to pay off their mortgage
early -- a couple is making double mortgage payments every month.
They're cutting it so thin, however, that they fail to save any cash
for emergencies. Then, all of a sudden, one of them gets laid off.
Now, instead of making double payments, they're having a lot of
trouble making the required single payment each month. In the
worst-case scenario, the couple is forced back to high interest credit
card debt to make ends meet.
So, we're all for aggressive debt repayment, but don't spread yourself
so thin that it's hard to sleep at night. And don't neglect emergency
savings. Moreover, the after-tax interest cost of mortgage loans can
get down into the 6% range, a level at which investing any extra cash
might be more profitable, over the long run, than paying down the
debt. So be sure to start with the higher interest, non-tax-deductible
loans, like car loans. For most homeowners, the mortgage should be the
last loan you attack.
Q. Besides emergencies, what other things can upset loan repayment plans?
A. When we talk about saving for emergencies, we're talking about real
emergencies like losing a job or suffering an extended disability.
We're not talking about the car insurance payment that slipped your
mind or even replacing a broken down refrigerator. Try to budget
beyond the monthly must-pay bills to cover things like future
appliance needs, vacations, and next year's tuition payments. Failure
to do so can lead to a demoralizing step backwards -- to credit card
debt -- just when you were starting to make real progress.
Q. Should I consolidate multiple debts under one loan?
A. Maybe, but there are some important pros and cons to think through
first. The most obvious benefits of loan consolidation are:
Lower Interest Rate. It may be possible to borrow at an attractive
rate, and then use this money to pay off higher interest rate loans,
effectively "moving" a chunk of your debt to a lower-cost loan.
Simplification. It's easier to be disciplined if you're organized, and
it's easier to be organized with fewer outstanding loans to track.
But consolidation is not without risks. Just as we saw above, planning
for emergencies comes into play:
Trading Unsecured Debt for Secured Debt. Lower rate loans are commonly
"secured," meaning that the debt is backed by your home, car, or some
other tangible possession. Putting your valuable stuff "on the line,"
so to speak, is what gets you the lower interest rate. From the
lender's perspective, it removes a lot of the bad credit risk from the
deal.
The down side to secured loans, though, is that if you hit an extended
rough spot and default on the loan, you can literally lose your stuff.
Even bankruptcy laws may not protect your home, for example, if your
mortgage turns out to be the secured loan that you can't pay.
For this reason, many personal finance experts lay down a firm line.
They'll tell you never to trade unsecured debt, like credit card
balances, for secured debt. For example, the standard advice is not to
roll credit card debt into your mortgage or a home equity loan.
On the other hand, this advice is too conservative for some. Borrowing
against the value of personal possessions is sometimes the only way
out of lousy, high interest rate loans. If you do decide to put your
stuff at risk, be sure to consider whether you have adequate life and
disability insurance, a secure and stable job, and some emergency cash
set aside before you take the plunge.
Summary
When you get past credit cards, managing debt gets a little more
complicated. Keep attacking aggressively, but be sure to plan ahead,
especially for financial emergencies. You don't want to take a step
backward into credit card debt or, worse, default on a secured loan.

Lesson 5: (Optional) Debt Triage
Key points
If debt troubles have pushed you to the edge of sanity, STOP... and
take a deep breath. It may seem like the end of the world, but we can
assure you that it's not.

It's in everyone's best interest -- both yours and the people to whom
you owe money -- to get you out of crisis mode and into a repayment
plan that you can handle. Nobody wins if you spiral down to
bankruptcy.

The laws are actually on your side, although you'll have to get
organized to take advantage of them.

A good credit counseling service can turn your life around, but please
choose carefully. For some reason debt problems draw a lot scam
artists.
Are you being hounded by debt collectors or intimidated by lenders? If
so, we have some good news and some bad news. The good news is that
you are well protected by federal laws; the bad news is that it will
take a disciplined effort on your part to take advantage of these
laws.
So, before we get into specifics, here are three general strategies
that will help anyone battling a debt problem.
Start a record of every conversation you have, from here on out, with
lenders, credit bureaus, bill collectors, etc., by phone or in person.
We provide some space in the workbook for you to do this. Be
aggressive on the phone. Get names and write them down, along with
dates and key discussion topics, including any agreements reached or
promises made.

Save all related mail, including postmarked envelopes. When it's your
turn to send something important, go to the post office and ask for a
registered or certified letter and request a receipt that proves it
was received.

Be courteous and diplomatic, but make it clear to everyone involved
that you know your rights, are keeping careful records, and won't be
intimidated.
Yippee! Sounds like fun, eh? OK, we know these tasks are a drag. But
if you can force yourself to do them, you'll be armed with the facts
for each new round of battle against your creditors, and you'll gain a
comforting sense of control over the whole process.
Now for some specifics...
Start at the Source
Always start by contacting the businesses to which you owe money. Yes,
we realize that this is about as much fun as giving a speech in your
underwear, but it's generally to your advantage. When push comes to
shove, most businesses would rather not bring in a costly bill
collector. Faced with this option, most would rather work out a
repayment plan that you can handle.
Know Your Rights
By law, debt collectors cannot contact you before 8 a.m. or after 9
p.m., and cannot otherwise harass you, your family or friends, or tell
lies.

If a debt collector threatens you with jail time, it's guaranteed to
be a lie. Debtors are never jailed in this country, and nobody can
even garnish your wages without a legal proceeding.

You can prevent workplace calls or visits from a debt collector by
requesting that you not be bothered there. Put it in writing!

Since debt collectors can be sued for failing to follow these (and
other) rules, you can sometimes turn the intimidation tables on them
by mentioning that you are familiar with the law.

For more help in dealing with troublesome debt collectors, contact the
Federal Trade Commission at 1-877-FTC-HELP, or online at
http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/credit/fdc.htm
Choose Your Friends Carefully
A good credit counseling organization can make all the difference.
These offer everything from expert advice and a sympathetic ear to
hands-on budgeting help. Many will even step in -- between you and
those you owe -- to negotiate repayment plans that you can handle.
Many of these counseling services are non-profit organizations that
offer services free of charge or for just a small fee to those who can
afford it. A good place to start is the National Foundation for Credit
Counseling (NFCC), a national network of Neighborhood Financial Care
Centers (NFCC). Call them at 800-388-2227 to find out if there is a
center in your area.
Unfortunately, for every such worthy organization, there are dozens of
rip-off artists preying on vulnerable debtors. Anyone who promises to
"quickly wipe your record clean" for a small fee, or similar magic
tricks, is probably a thief. Be especially wary of pressure sales
tactics. Most reputable counselors will wait for you to come to them.
Summary
Take advantage of the law and credit counseling to get back on firm
ground.These actions won't erase your debts. Chances are you'll owe
just as much money. But at least you'll be in a position where you can
think clearly and start laying the foundation for putting debt behind
you forever.

How to Get Out Of Debt Frequently Asked Questions
1. How do I build a strong credit rating?
Pay your bills on time, especially mortgage or rent payments. Apart
from extreme circumstances like bankruptcy or tax liens, nothing has
the impact of late payments. Anything more than 30 days late will hurt
you. Never let a payment of any kind -- even phone or utility bills --
get 90 days past due.
Limit your debt. If you absolutely must carry a balance on any
accounts, keep that balance as low as possible. Bumping up against
your credit limit on one or more cards is a signal to many lenders
that you're not a good debt manager.
Be careful not to apply for too much credit in a short amount of time.
Multiple requests for your credit history (not including requests by
you to check your file) will reduce your credit score. If you are
hunting around for good loan rates, assume that every time you give
your Social Security number to a lender or credit card company, they
will order a credit history.
Check your credit history for errors. This is especially important if
you will soon be requesting a time-dependent loan, like a mortgage.
All three national credit reporting agencies -- Equifax
(1-800-685-1111), Experian (1-888-567-8688), and Transunion (1-800
888-4213) -- have consumer ordering information on their websites. You
can also order reports from Truecredit.com (1-800-493-2392).
2. That all sounds great, but I've already made some mistakes. How do
I clear up a negative credit history?
The bad news is that past credit problems like late bill payments or
accounts referred to collection will stay on your credit report. The
good news, however, is that they affect your credit rating less as
time passes. You can lessen the sting of your less-than-angelic
history by habitually paying current bills on time. Your report
changes gradually as new information is added to your bank and credit
bureau files, and credit issuers give more weight to your recent
bill-paying history. A clean record for the last year or two can make
a real difference.
3. Should I borrow from my 401(k), or a similar retirement plan, to
pay back loans?
In general, this is a bad idea. Think about it this way: Your current
situation may seem like a nightmare, but imagine facing the same set
of circumstances in old age, without sufficient retirement savings.
Sound fun?
Sure, you'll make your loan payments back into your own retirement
savings (and, make no mistake, this is a good thing!), but while the
money is out of the plan, it stops working for you, delaying compound
gains. Also, if you change jobs, you might have to pay off the loan in
a hurry, or face a permanent dent in your tax-sheltered retirement
savings plus some penalties for good measure.
Finally, if your budget can accommodate these loan payments back into
your plan, why mess with your nest egg in the first place? If at all
possible, dig deeper for another option. Pre-tax savings plans are
just such a powerful tool, and saving for retirement is so much easier
if you start early and leave the money alone.
4. Do I really have to have a credit card? I've had trouble
controlling my spending in the past, and so prefer not to carry one.
If you've been burned by credit card debt and are reluctant to carry a
card again, consider setting up automatic monthly charges to your
card's account for regular, recurring bills such as newspaper
subscriptions or your phone. Then lock the card away where it's not a
temptation. That way you can start building a credit history.
Although they have their dangers, credit cards are still the easiest
way to establish a credit history. It can be difficult to get a loan
anywhere else -- including a mortgage -- without having documented
credit history. You don't have to use your cards much to improve your
credit rating, or incur interest charges by carrying a balance. Banks
and other lending institutions, especially those that don't know you
as a long-time customer, just want some evidence that you can handle
credit responsibly. The sooner you get started the better, especially
if you are currently renting but plan to buy a house someday.
5. Is it better to carry a gold card? Does it look better on my credit history?
While platinum and gold cards often offer special perks such as
frequent flyer miles for dollars spent, additional travel insurance,
and automatic rental auto insurance, these perks may not be worth the
annual fees -- often in the range of $85-$150 -- you'll have to cough
up to carry the card. If you're thinking about signing up for one of
these cards, realistically consider if the rewards correspond to your
lifestyle, and if they outweigh the cost of what is probably a
substantial annual fee.
Be wary of platinum or gold card offers that promise to improve your
credit rating or gain you approval for major credit cards you wouldn't
otherwise get. Often the only additional card you might get is a
secured credit card that requires a substantial security deposit with
a bank. In addition, many of these credit-card purveyors do not report
to credit bureaus as they promise, and their cards seldom help secure
lines of credit with other creditors.
Such 'gold' and 'platinum' credit-card offers usually are promoted
through television or newspaper advertisements, direct mail, or
telephone solicitations using automatic dialing machines and recorded
messages. Show them you're the wiser by not responding to such ads, or
consider taking the necessary steps to opt out by calling
1-888-5-OPTOUT
6. Should I declare bankruptcy?
Although it may be tempting to declare bankruptcy if you are feeling
overwhelmed by financial obligations you just can't meet, bankruptcy
should only be considered as a last resort. Contrary to what you may
have heard, bankruptcy does not wipe clean your credit history, nor
does it provide a fresh start.
Consider that:
Bankruptcy stays on your credit report for up to ten years.
If you declare bankruptcy, you will have difficulty getting future
credit such as a mortgage loan.
After bankruptcy, any credit you do get will probably cost you more in
terms of interest rates and fees charged.
Alimony, child support, and most taxes survive bankruptcy and will
still be owed.
Before you consider bankruptcy, try to work out a payment plan with
your creditors, or set up a debt-repayment program by contacting an
NFCC-member financial help center at 1-800-388-2227.

H. Bangambiki
http://www.dailywebpro.com

Ultimate Dating Secrets For Men

2009-09-10T19:17:00.001-07:00

Ultimate Dating Secrets For Men

Ultimate Dating Secrets For Men
Kissing Secrets Revealed
Dating Secrets Revealed

Ultimate Dating Secrets For Men

Posted: 10 Sep 2009 03:46 AM PDT

Ultimate Dating Secrets For Men
by H.Bangambiki
http://www.laughingtonpost.com

Dating Advice for Men Lesson 1

Appearance - Clothes and shoes

A women appreciates a man who looks good or at least tries to. Women
take great care and effort of what they wear for different occasions
and also take note of guys who do the same. Clothes is THE difference
between dashing and ordinary. In addition, women do take note of
shoes. It explains why they have a whole shoe rack full of shoes.
Therefore, choose your shoes wisely too. Although different women have
different taste in choice of clothes for men, it is generally
acceptable to look neat and tidy. Here are some ways to achieve it.

1. Dressed Suitably

Formal wear are for formal occasions such as dinner in restaurants.
T-shirts and jeans are for simple date at the mall. Shorts and
singlets are for jogging in your nearby park and so on. You get the
picture.

2. Iron your clothes

Its not a very good image to portray if your clothes are crumpled and
you go out on a date. A woman will think that you are lazy and do not
place any importance on the date.
3. Do NOT wear clothes with vulgarities, sexually suggestive images or words

We know that these clothes might be your favorite as it is very cheeky
or portrays your style that you do not give a damn what's happening
around. However, its a definite no no for dates as its rude,
insensitive and too explicit for any potential girlfriends/wives to
take it.

4. Go for well known , respected brands

We do not want you to show off. However, it is always nice to wear
something that lets you get noticed by your date. If branded stuff is
not your thing, at least get a simple respected brand that do not
portray you as a cheapskate.

5. Ask another women for opinion

Lets face it. Man are pretty hopeless at fashion. That's why we hate
shopping.(The clothes look the same anyway) To understand what is
appropriate, what is nice on you, it is always good to get a female's
opinion. After all, your date is another female and it is your date
that is going to judge you on your date.

Dating Advice for Men Lesson2

Appearance - General

Not every man is born tall dark and handsome. In fact most are not.
However, by looking presentable, every man can still capture the
attention of their date. Here are some tips to look nice and
presentable.

1. Shave before going out

No women will like the look of a rough beard or moustache sticking out
from your face. Although there are the odd few who finds it sexy,
chances are its better to look clean shaven and tidy. It gives a
better positive image of a person who cares about the date and who
takes care of oneself.

2. Bathe often

It not our fault that men have larger sweat glands neither is it our
fault that men enjoy sports that makes us soak in sweat. However, it
could be our fault if we do not shower frequently. Every woman likes
his man to smell nice and look clean. So if you're the type that sweat
easily, be prepared to shower more, especially before meeting your
date.

3. Get your cologne, aftershave out

Cologne and aftershaves are not for Gays. In fact, women find men who
smell nice masculine. Just like bathing often, its also important to
smell nice. After all, you do not want to spoil your first kiss with
your date just because you smell awful.

4. Smile often

A smile helps to lessen the tension, projects a lively and positive
image and best of all, a person always looks the best when you're
smiling. We should always be smiling as we never know who is in love
with your smile. Therefore practice smiling now if you are going out
on a date soon!

5. Do not slouch

Slouching gives a bad impression of a person that is not confident,
weak and no sense of security. Therefore, do what your mum always tell
you. Stand straight and be proud of your height.

Dating Advice for Men Lesson 3

Confidence and Success

A confident man is a good looking man. Brad pitt can wear a skirt and
yet look macho. However, confidence stems from success. Success in
doing whatever you do impresses girls. Woman love a man who knows what
they want and what they have done. The more difficult it is to achieve
the success, the more impressed the girl. Here are some tips to show
your confidence and success.

1. Know your goals

Women loves a man with direction. It gives them a sense of security.
Even if you do not have much success in your goals, knowing your goals
and letting her know that is the sign of a man who is clear and far
sighted. Therefore, if you do not have goals up till now, its time to
start thinking.

2. Be yourself

Everybody should be proud of themselves. It says a lot about your
confidence. If you're a goofy character, just be one in front of her
instead of trying to be somebody else. A women will love you for what
your are and not what you try to be.

3. Take Risks, Break rules

Everybody admires risk taker. This includes women. A risk taker is
seen as brave and charming as they are doing stuff ordinary people
dare not do. This includes breaking conventional rules. It explains
why bad boys often attract the best lookers out there.

4. Be knowledgeable

A knowledgeable man is seen as a confident man. A man who speaks
wisdom with his every word is deem more successful then a man who
craps a lot. So start ordering your newspapers and newsweek magazines
now if you have not done so.

Dating Advice for Men Lesson 4

Behavior

There's a proper way to behave in front of ladies. It is never nice to
let women see the rough side of you especially on your first date.
Behavior shows your character and whether your relationship can carry
on. It is a further step forward after first impressions.

1. Do be chivalrous

Its the 21st century. No doubt that men and women have equal rights.
However, there's nothing wrong to continue showing chivalry to women.
Opening doors, helping to carry shopping bags, sending her home are
all basic courtesy that is on the decline. However, women still loved
to be pampered and there's nothing wrong with that. Stick with the
ancient code of being a gentleman and you'll never be wrong.

2. Do treat women with respect

Do not ever make sexist or insensitive comments about women. Do not
swear and curse when at the waiters just because they give bad
service. Listen when your date talks and talk when she stops talking.
Treat her properly and chances are you'll leave a lasting impression.

3. Do maintain eye contact

Eye contact is very important to show that you're interested in
whatever she's talking. Its extremely disgusting if your date is
talking and you are distracted by the chick that just walked by.
However, its also important not to stare at her especially if you've
just met her as it gives the impression that you are a pervert that is
following her every action.

4. Don't get drunk in front of her

Being able to hold your liquor well equates to being strong in front
of your mates. However, it is directly the opposite with women. Women
hate drunkards as they are rowdy, noisy and totally obnoxious. They
are a complete turnoff. Therefore, if possible, drink less if you're
out on a date. Best of all, don't drink.

5. Don't get touchy too quickly

When you touch a woman, it breaks down their self defense and they
will only allow this when they feel totally at ease and attracted to
you. Therefore, unless she touches you or you feel totally at ease
with her and that she's attracted to you. Do not touch her too quickly
as she might think you only want sex

Dating Advice for Men Lesson 5

Conversation - what to say and take note

Its always important to say the right things and things that will
impress. Its also tremendously important not to say stupid things
which may offend your date. You also do not want to bore your date by
talking about things she totally cannot relate to. These are some
things that you can mention or should take note while striking a
conversation.

1. Be open minded

Do not show extremism towards subjects that your date talks about. It
might just be something that she cares a lot about. Do not make any
crude remarks on anything she says for the same reason. You do not
want to leave a bad impression so fast.

2. Talk about common topics

Its a very common tip but its one of the most difficult to master. Man
will naturally like to talk about themselves and their interests.
However, there's no harm in talking about something in which your date
has a huge passion for and you find it boring. There is also no harm
talking about hot topics that she might be interested in. If you
really are clueless about what to talk to her about, do some research
beforehand on what to say. Her friends and appearance are good
resources to start from.

3. Compliment and talk about her dressing

As mentioned in Lesson #1, women take great care of their dressing and
man should therefore take notice of what women wear and compliment
them. However, compliment her casually as you do not want her to think
that you're totally captivated by her. You can follow up on her
dressing by asking where she bought it and how much it cost. It helps
her to feel important.

4. Joke

The sure way to succeed is always humor as women relates witty guys to
not boring. No women likes boring guys no matter how good the
impression he makes. Jokes can liven the atmosphere and creates a good
impression for you.

5. Don't talk about sports, politics or other male gender dominated
topics unless she is interested in them too

Men love their sports. Sports competitiveness brings out the
excitement and happiness of men. However, most women know nuts about
sports. Its no use telling your date about Michael Jordon's glorious
history when she is more interested in the cute boyish basketballer on
the court. Therefore, unless you want to talk about how cute that
basketballer is, steer clear of sports. The same rule applies for
other male gender dominated topics.

6. Lastly, Listen

Its no coincidence that women talks much more then men per day. Women
love to talk and let their opinions be known. Therefore, its important
to listen and appreciate what she says instead of talking all the
time. It makes your date feels important.

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Kissing Secrets Revealed

Posted: 10 Sep 2009 03:45 AM PDT

Kissing Secrets Revealed
by H.Bangambiki
http://www.laughingtonpost.com
http://www.althotgirls.com

Kissing Explained

Kissing your lover should be an everyday affair, an expression of your
love for him or her. You should not use every kissing session as a
prelude to sex.
The kiss is the single most intimate display of affection. The kiss is
the key that opens the door to both her heart, and her body. It has
been found that most women based their decision of whether they would
sleep with a man, on his kissing abilities!

A Man Sees Kissing as the Next Step on a Quest

Most men if given a chance to kiss a woman thinks while kissing that
when can we get to step two? And three and four? Is she aroused yet?
Can I put my hand on her breast now? A man sees kissing as the next
step on a quest. Many men take kissing as a step to get down to the
good stuff. As a result, they rush through the kissing and do not get
to fully enjoy the delightfulness of a long, passionate, kiss.

The Kiss Should Not Be a Step but a Destination In Itself

Actually the kiss is not a step, it is the the destination itself. A
man kisses a woman like he will never do anything else with this
woman, as if he never wants to do anything else with this woman. But
this is when the woman decides there will be other activities on the
agenda.

Kissing- Keep It Simple and Sexy

You want to be a great kisser? Then keep it simple and sexy. Forget
about impressing her with that heavenly kiss. Instead, indulge
yourself in a simple, sexy and intimate kiss. Rid your mind of any
kissing performance thoughts, and instead, realize that she's opening
the door to her soul and body. Enjoy the moment!

Kissing Says Something Words Can't

If the eyes tell the secrets of a person, then lips are the informers
of our consciousness. Our lips respond to happy thoughts by smiling,
they express our deepest emotions with words of love and hope ,and
kissing is the only way to say something that words can't.

The First Kiss?

A first kiss!! It should always be done while the two of you are
alone.(Do I need to tell that?) This will help to avoid any
unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations. The best type of
kiss is one that uses different variations...such as starting with a
small kiss, working into a French kiss, maybe sucking on your
partner's upper or lower lip...

And don't just leave kisses to the lips. Kiss the whole face. This can
be very seductive and romantic.

Kissing is an Art Form

Kissing is an art form. The kissing experience is different for each
of us.The first step to kissing is known as finding her comfort level.
Make sure she is ready for a kiss and do not start anything until she
is comfortable.

Give a Memorable Kiss

The best kisses are those that are memorable, but leave you pantingly
wanting more. The language of a kiss is communication without words.
At various times you want to communicate attraction, affection, love,
passion, lust, and I'll miss you, baby. Pay attention to what your
mate responds to, and what seems to turn him or her off, then adjust
your techniques accordingly.

Great Kissing Tips

After you've kissed him/her once, you know he/she wants to kiss you.
But what if you two have never kissed? The first kiss is the hardest.

Couples should not limit kissing merely to times like making out, or
as the conclusion to a date or a prelude to something more. Kissing
your lover should be an everyday affair, an expression of your love
for her. You should not use every kissing session as a prelude to s*x.

Good and Bad Kissing

If you are a bad kisser, what a woman will never, ever say to you she
was going to have s*x with you until just that moment. This is one of
the ways in which men and women differ. If a man is very attracted to
a woman but discovers she's a bad kisser and if he is presented with
the opportunity, he'll probably have s*x with her anyway. A woman
can't get past a bad kiss. After all, if he hasn't mastered kissing
and fails to see its sensual possibilities, what hope is there for
anything else?

Kissing Techniques

The secret to being a great kisser is to keep it simple and sexy.
Forget about impressing her with that Casanovian kiss. Instead,
indulge yourself in a simple, sexy and intimate kiss. Rid your mind of
any kissing performance thoughts, and instead, realize that she's
opening the door to her soul and body. Enjoy the moment!

You could ask him/her to kiss you, but that takes a lot of courage.
But you can tell, without reading his mind. Here are some ways. He
could have worked on the science project with someone else, but he
asked you. He could have called somebody else to chat about the Math
assignment, but he called you. He could have sat anywhere in the
cafeteria, but he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out
with you.

And what about when you're with him. Does he sit close to you? Does he
smile and look happy when you're together? These are all signs that he
likes you and might want to kiss you.

Dos and Don'ts for Kissing

1.Don't drool all over her mouth while kissing. Women don't like wet
or sloppy kisses.

2.Don't keep your lips stiff and rigid. You've got to keep your lips
soft and sensuous. She needs to be able to feel your lips.

3.Don't keep your lips closed. Open your lips! Women don't enjoy
kissing just a slit on a guys face.
If you don't know how to kiss properly, try to practice on the back of
your hand. Pretend that you are kissing a hot & sexy beautiful woman
that you're dying to become intimate with. You could also practice
kissing yourself on the mirror.
In short, if you really want to succeed with single women in the love
and romance department, you must be a good kisser.

A great kiss should always be when you're alone with her. A movie
theatre is a good place because it's dark and people won't be paying
attention. Try to sit near the back, though, for privacy. But I do
believe that a first kiss should be the good-bye kiss. When you're
dropping her off at her place or saying good-bye from seeing one
another until the next time, ask her if it's okay if you kiss her.
It's not childish or geeky to ask a woman that. It's respectful and
kind.

Daniel Day-Lewis belongs in the kissing hall of fame for Best Use of
Hands. He gently caresses his costar's face and touches her hair, a
model of how hands can increase the erotic pleasure of the moment.

Bear in mind the hands should not be used to prevent the woman from
going anywhere or to clamp her head into one uncomfortable position.
Remember most women like men to toy gently with their hair. After
decades of bad press about sticky hairsprays and helmet hair, most of
us have been using products to enhance "touch ability" and are
favoring hairstyles that look good a bit tousled. So go ahead and
touch hair. And quit using all that sticky hairspray and goo so we can
go back to touching yours.

Keep in mind that using your tongue is not required for kissing... if
you are not experienced, save the French kissing (kissing using your
tongue) for later. Lots of the greatest kisses are all about the lips.
When you are comfortable kissing your partner, experiment with
different ways to taste and nuzzle his lips. Caress his lips by
brushing your lips back and forth against them, lick the outside
corners of his mouth, and try using different pressures and movements
to gently explore your partner's lips. Notice how good his lips feel
against yours, and try different things to make them feel even better!

Bad Kissing Could Make You Loose a Girl

Who Likes Kissing the Most?

It seems that even though men think kissing is okay, they looked at it
more as a necessary evil to get to the good part. Women seemed to
prefer long, lingering kisses that didn't necessarily have to lead to
anything else. Reportedly, for a woman, pressure from their male
partner to make it lead somewhere took away from the enjoyment of the
moment.

What to Avoid While Kissing?

1.Don't drool all over her mouth while kissing. Women don't like wet
or sloppy kisses.

2.Don't keep your lips stiff and rigid. You've got to keep your lips
soft and sensuous. She needs to be able to feel your lips.

3.Don't keep your lips closed. Open your lips! Women don't enjoy
kissing just a slit on a guys face.

4.Avoid bad breath.If you want to ruin a perfect kiss then bad breath
is your best possible solution. Now no need to say that you should
avoid spicy foods, garlic and onions just before. If you want to eat
then another solution is make sure you're both eating spicy food, so
neither will notice.

5.Silence. Every now and then say something sweet.

The Ultimate Kissing FAQ

Kissing Faq-1. What to Avoid While Kissing?

1.Don't drool all over her mouth while kissing. Women don't like wet
or sloppy kisses.

2.Don't keep your lips stiff and rigid. You've got to keep your lips
soft and sensuous. She needs to be able to feel your lips.

3.Don't keep your lips closed. Open your lips! Women don't enjoy
kissing just a slit on a guys face.

5.Silence. Every now and then say something sweet.

Kissing Faq-2. How to Kiss Pationately?

The great secret to great kissing is variety. Sometimes be gentle and
at other times be rough. Tease your partner with a little bite on the
lips as if you wanted to eat them up! Press your nose into your
parteners cheek and hug

Kissing Faq-2. What Part of the Tongue to Use?

Another important aspect of kissing is to use the middle part of the
tongue in your kiss because of the large number of sensitive nerve
endings there. The kiss you give your partner will be positively
electrifying!

Kissing Faq-3. What to do if you Bang Teeth

Lough it off.Tell your partner you're so keen to kiss him and that you
are grtting dizzy just standing close to him/her. They'll believe you
and be confident and go on

Kissing Faq-4. Where to Kiss

Kissing in public is cool, but not in front of Mom. Men loved to be
kissed with their eyes open, so that you two lock eyes seems to drive
them wild. Men and women both seem to like being kissed in places
other than the lips with neck, ears and eyes ranking highly.

Kissing Faq-5. Who is Kissable?

Men and women both thought the idea of kissing someone who was clean,
had beautifully full and shapely lips, who was attractive, and who
possessed a great smile and nice teeth was a "10" on the kissable
scale. Guys also felt that if a woman seemed open and friendly, she
was more likely to be the recipient of a romantically spontaneous kiss
than a woman that seemed uptight.

Kissing Faq-6. Who Likes Kissing the Most?

Kissing Faq-7. How to French Kiss?

The secret to french kissing is responsiveness.Sometimes you lead, at
other time you let your partner lead. Don't just use your tongue like
a dart.

Kissing Faq-8. How to Handle Your First Kiss?

Bluff yor way through the first kiss. No one will know it's the first
time unless you say so. Try a gentle lip kiss and keep your lips
closed. If you open up, you're inviting a tongue kiss famously known
as a french kiss

Kissing Thoughts

If eyes tell the sectrets of a person, then lips are the informers of
our consciousness. Our lips respond to happy thoughts by smiling, they
express our deepest emotions with words of love and hope ,and kissing
is the only way to say something that words can't.
You can take a look on the following tips to make your kissing a
fabulous experience.

During kissing, just gently press your lips against hers. You can move
your lips a bit back and forth against hers or in a small circular
motion at your will. When you meet her lips at slight angle, it is the
best type of kiss. This gives more opportunities to explore, it feels
nicer, and will give you a chance to French kiss if you wish.

Keep your eyes closed once you are into the kiss. You might want to
keep them open until you have actual lip contact. But when the kiss
has started, eyes closed, is the way to go. It can really help you
shut out the world and focus only on the kiss. It is generally
considered as guys who kiss with their eyes open are usually thinking
of something else besides you. If you catch your partner kissing with
eyes wide, be careful - he might not be good material.

You might want to follow movie stars but there are some movie stars
who perpetuate bad kissing styles. Take Tom Cruise Method (as seen in
Top Gun), for example, whereby his tongue is already slithering out
before he's met her lips. It is referred to as the Lizard-King Style.
Most women do not like the idea of kissing a large snake, which is
what this must be similar to. The only response possible is for the
woman to open her mouth wide and remain motionless while he finishes
his routing, a posture that calls to mind trips to the dentist.

About opening your eyes, there is one more view. Some people find to
keep open their eyes open to be an impossible task (like sneezing with
your eyes open), but while the customary belief is that we must try to
block out all other sensations, you may find that kissing with your
eyes open is the very much equivalent of making love with the lights
on. And if you're going to be kissing for several hours in a make-out
bar, it's a good idea to take a look at economic conditions!

How to get him/her to kiss you?

Many times people find themselves nervous sending out mixed signals.
You might want him or her to kiss you, but your nervous behavior might
be saying "just stay away."

First of all you and your posture should be open. Sit or stand close
to the person whom you want to kiss. Face him or him. Look in his or
her eyes, not at the ground. Don't cross your arms or lean away; or,
instead of "kiss me" you'll be saying "go away!"

Smile is also important. Here is something for women. Get close to
him. Don't fear to hold his/her hands. Ask him to help you remove an
earring, or undo the clasp of that gold chain you're wearing. To do
that he's got to put both hands on your neck.
Now turn your head, and look in his eyes, and be quiet. Smile. If he
says anything, just interrupt and whisper his name softly. He'll kiss
you for sure!

Kissing and sex

There is a lot of fun in kissing. Its not like just because you are
kissing a guy you have to do anything more.

On the other hand, once you're kissing passionately, you might both
feel like going further.

I think best way to avoid going further is to kiss him or her in a
semi-public place. Theatre is the best place according to me. If you
kiss him in a movie theater or on your front porch, sex is not likely
to happen right there I hope.

On the other hand, if you're sitting on your bed when your parents
aren't home, there's not really anything to stop you, so it's
something you might want to avoid.

The following is a list of kisses you should avoid:

You must avoid the Lizard kiss in which your tongue darts in and out
of his or her mouth like a reptile probing for something.

Another kiss to avoid is one called the Roto Rooter in which your
tongue ventures so far down her throat that it actually begins to
choke her.

Another is when you operate your tongue much like a swordfish, and use
your nose in a blunt and violent manner.

The one kiss in which you rarely come up for air.

Avoid the freezing condition in which you never change the position,
posture, or angle of your head. Its really boring.

You seem to emit an awful smell and taste. All she can think of is how
to slip you a breath mint.

36 KISSING SECRET WAYS THAT WILL REVOLUTIONISE YOUR LOVE LIFE

Below you will find a variety of kiss types. If you find some that
catch your fancy, feel free to try them :-)

Butterfly Kiss - With your faces less than a breath away, open and
close your eyelids against your partners. If done correctly, the
fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart.

Cheek Kiss - A friendly, "I really like you" kiss. Often the preferred
kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's
shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek.

Earlobe Kiss - Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking
noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors.

Eskimo Kiss - With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub
your noses together.

Eye Kiss - Hold your partner's head with both hands and slowly move
their head in the direction you wish your kiss to go... then slowly
kiss up towards your partner's eyes and give them a tender kiss on top
of their closed eyes.

Eyelid Kiss - While your partner is resting/sleeping with eyes closed,
very very gently kiss the spot right below their browbone. A very
intimate kiss.

Finger Kiss - While laying together gently suck on their fingers. This
can be very seductive and pleasurable.

Foot Kiss - An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax
and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by gently suck the toes and then
lightly kissing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the
foot while performing the kiss.

Forehead Kiss - The "motherly" kiss or "just friends" kiss. The
forehead kiss can be a comforting kiss to anyone. Simply brush your
lips lightly across the crown of their head.

Freeze Kiss (or Melt Kiss) - Experiment with this fun kiss. Put a
small piece of ice in your mouth, then open mouth and kiss your
partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and
sensual french kiss with a twist of cold.

French Kiss - The kiss involving the tongue. Some call this the "Soul
Kiss" because the life and soul are thought to pass through the
mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues. Surprisingly, the
French call this "The English Kiss".

Fruity Kiss - Take a small piece of fruit and place between your lips
(juicy fruits such as grapes, strawberries, small pieces of pineapple
or mango are ideal). Kiss your partner and nibble one half of the
piece of fruit while they nibble the other until it breaks in half,
allowing the juice to run into your mouths.

Hand Kiss - Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your
lips across the top of her hand. Historically this kiss was performed
with a bow, which showed deference to a lady.

Hickey Kiss - The object is not to draw blood, but to gently leave a
mark that will prove your interlude was not a dream. This is often
included in erotic foreplay.

Hostage Kiss - Cover your lips with tape and get your love's
attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell
them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they
remove the tape from you to hear what you're trying to say tell them:
"I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then kiss your love
passionately!

Hot and Cold Kiss - Lick your partner's lips so that they're warm, and
then gently blow on them. The sudden cold blast makes for a sensual
explosion, and they will often try it on you next, as well as get very
passionate.

Mistletoe Kiss - Surprise your lover by capturing them with a gentle
holiday kiss under the mistletoe. This is also a good method for shyer
individuals to steal a kiss from a potential lover.

Letter Kiss - Send your lover a kiss in a love letter by writing the
letter x several times in a row at the bottom of a letter such as
XXXXX.

Lick Kiss - Just before kissing, gently run your tongue along you
partners lip whether it be the top or bottom one depending on the
position of your lips. Very sensual.

Lip Sucking Kiss - When kissing gently suck on their lower lip. This
can be very exciting.

Neck Nibble Kiss - Gently nibble up and down your partners neck. End
with a gentle kiss on the lips.

Nip Kiss - This kiss can create a very erotic sensation. While kissing
your partner, ever so gently nibble on their lips. You must be very
careful not to bite to hard or hurt your partner. When done correctly,
this kiss ignites wonderful sensations.

Reverse Lips Kiss - It involves standing above your lover and kissing
them from over their head. This way, each kisser can take the
hyper-sensitive bottom lip of thier lover in their mouths, and GENTLY
draw blood to the surface of the lip by nibbling and sucking. A very
sensuous, connecting kiss.

Searching The Cavern - Use the lips and tongue to gently tickle and
kiss your lover's navel. Vary speeds and stroke to change sensation.
Invigorating and intoxicating.

Shoulder Kiss - Simply come from behind, embrace her, and kiss the top
of her shoulder. This is a sensual, loving kiss.

Sip Kiss - Take a small sip of your favorite drink. Leaving a little
bit of it on your lips, kiss your partner. It is a unique way to
create a sensual feeling and your partner will enjoy it.

Talking Kiss - Whisper sweet nothings into your partner's mouth. If
caught in the act, simply say as Chico Marx, "I wasn't kissing her. I
was whispering into her mouth."

Teaser Kiss - Starting on the forehead, a sweet short kiss on lips,
then move up the arms up to her hand, kiss her hand, then come back up
her arm, to her face and then lightly kiss her lips till she wants a
passionate kiss.

The Buzzing Kiss - Gently place your lips against your lover's neck ,
behind their ear. Now, send a shudder through their skin by gently
growling and humming, vibrating your lips and cheeks as you do so.
Move up and down the neck, over the bones of the face and lips.
Stimulating and erotic when done correctly.

The Whipped Cream Kiss - Dip your finger into some cool whip or
whipped cream of your choice. Lick it off slowly, then embrace your
partner and kiss them deeply letting their tongue slip over yours for
a wonderfully sweet kiss. It's very seductive and passionate.

Tiger Kiss - Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do
not know what you are going to do. Out of the blue, grab them and
gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too.
This will surely surprise them.

Trickle Kiss - Take a sip of a favourite drink and trickle it slowly
into partner's mouth while kissing.

Tongue Sucking - A variation of the French kiss. During an open-mouth
kiss gently suck on your partner's tongue (not too hard because it may
hurt). Very sexy :-)

Quickie Kiss - When you're in a rush. Often the nose gets it rather
than the lips.

Vacuum Kiss - While kissing open-mouthed, slightly suck in as if you
were sucking the air from your partners mouth. This is a playful kiss.

Wake Up Kiss - Before your partner awakes lean over and kiss their
cheek and move over giving soft kisses until you reach their lips.
Definitely a more than pleasant way to wake up!

Worst Types of Kisses

The Katrina Kiss.

If you watch television and are even the least bit aware of world
events, you know what I'm talking about! This is a kiss with entirely
too much water. You are drooled on, slobbered on and when the kiss is
over, you feel the need for a towel and maybe a shower. If you have a
salivary gland problem, or your partner just makes you drool with
lust, try swallowing before you start kissing.

The Iguana Kiss.

Crusty, crunchy, scaly lips are OUT. This is a true case of lizard
lips! Keep that kisser soft and touchable. If you run your lips gently
across your lovers neck, cheek and lips, they shouldn't be left with
what look like paper cuts.

The Prozac Kiss.

You might wonder if this tongue needs tranquilizers, as it appears to
be having a nervous breakdown! Fast, furious, darting or high-speed
swirling motions reminiscent of a washing machine on the rinse cycle.
Interesting I suppose, if you're into that sort of "household
instrument" thing.

The Cave.

In this instance your partner's mouth is open so wide that your tongue
meets nothing but air on all sides! There is no exchange of sensation.
It's like you're kissing by yourself! Try saying something and see if
you hear an echo!

The Dirty Harry.

Guys, either grow a beard or shave. That 5 o'clock shadow thing looks
cute, but it can wreck havoc on a woman's tender body. Whisker burn
just plain hurts. You don't know what it feels like to have sand
papery stubble pierce the skin around your eyes or cheeks! With half
her face scraped off, a woman feels less than romantic and is more
inclined to get up to seek medical treatment than she is to get busy.

Trolling for Tonsils.

Everybody likes tongue kissing, but my goodness! A little restraint on
the depth of the kiss might be in order. If you have a tendency to
extend your tongue to its full length in your partners mouth, be sure
to check for a pulse when you get through.

The Kiss of Death.

You would swear that there is a body buried around here somewhere,
because the smell of decomposition is mighty strong! Brush those
teefis! Use one of the vast selections of mouthwashes on the market.
Hey, they even come in various colors, so it's possible to find one
that coordinates with your bathroom décor! Get a new toothbrush every
3 months! Visit your dentist and check for gum disease and cavities,
both of which contribute to bad breath. Eat more fruits, vegetables,
and drink more water to keep your insides clean too.

13 Most Popular Kissing Techniques

Kissing can be a wonderful prelude to more intimate pleasures, or a
joy unto itself. But only if you know what you are doing! Here are 13
most popular kissing techniques I know so far.

1.Angel Kiss

This is a sweet, comforting kiss. You could practice this by gently
and ever so lightly kiss your partner either on the eyelid or right
next to the eyes. Most effective for girls of all ages!

2.Cheek Kiss

A friendly kiss. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently
brush your lips across her cheek.

3.Butterfly Kiss

With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids
against your partners.

4.Freeze Kiss

Put a small piece of ice in your mouth, then open your mouth and kiss
your partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic
and sensual French kiss with a twist of cold.

5.Eskimo Kiss

With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub your noses
together. Really funny!

6.Earlobe Kiss

Gently sip and suck the earlobe.

7.French Kiss

The famous French kiss involves the tongue. Some call this the "Soul
Kiss" because the life and soul are thought to pass through the
mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues.

8.Forehead Kiss

The "motherly" kiss or "just friends" kiss. Simply brush your lips
lightly across the crown of their head.

9.Foot Kiss

An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it!
To give a toe kiss gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the
foot.

10.Hand Kiss

Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the
top of her hand.
Historically this kiss was performed with a bow, which showed
deference to a lady.

11.Letter Kiss

Send your lover a kiss in a love letter by writing the letter x
several times in a row at the bottom of a letter such as xxxx.

12.Mistletoe Kiss

Surprise your lover by capturing them with a gentle holiday kiss under
the mistletoe.
This is also a good method for shyer individuals to steal a kiss from
a potential lover.

13.Neck Kiss

Come up behind the person you want to kiss. Lightly lick the back of
their neck, then kiss the back of their neck a few times.

H.Bangambiki
http://www.laughingtonpost.com
http://www.althotgirls.com

Dating Secrets Revealed

Posted: 10 Sep 2009 03:43 AM PDT

Dating Secrets Revealed
by H.Bangambiki
http://www.laughingtonpost.com

21 Ways to Say I Love You

1. Call her the next day.

2. Always laugh at her jokes.

3. Tell her (truthfully) that you can't wait to see her again.

4. Offer her a backrub, without asking for one in return.

5. Call her just to say you were thinking about her.

6. Bring her a teddy bear and chicken soup when she's sick.

7. Write her a poem.

8. Slow dance with her (not only on a dance floor).

9. Bring her flowers for no reason.

10. Send her a (handwritten) letter just to say hello.

11. Always remember your anniversaries and bring her something sweet.

12. Kiss her in the middle of a sentence.

13. Take her for a walk at sunset and stay to look up at the stars.

14. Tell her something about you that no one else knows.

15. Remind her that you still think she's beautiful.

16. Take a bubble bath together.

17. Watch a sappy movie with her.

18. Surprise her with a candlelight dinner.

19. Never stop trying to impress her.

20. Tell her you love her.

21. Never forget how much she means to you.

25 Things Guys Like About Girls

WELL here's a few reasons why guys like girls

1. They will always smell good even if its just shampoo
2. The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder
3. How cute they look when they sleep
4. the ease in which they fit into our arms
5. the way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world
6. How cute they are when they eat
7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end it makes it
all worth while
8. because they are always warm even when its minus 30 out side
9. the way they look good no matter what they wear
10. the way they fish for compliments even though you both know that
you think she's the most beautiful thing on this earth
11. How cute they are when they argue
12. the way her hand always finds yours
13. the way they smile
14. the way you feel when you see their name on the call ID after you
just had a big fight
15. the way she says "lets not fight anymore" even though you know
that an hour later....
16. the way they kiss when you do something nice for them
17. The way they kiss you when you say "I love you'
18. actually... just the way they kiss you...
19. the way they fall into your arms when they cry
20. then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly
21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt
22. then the way apologize when it does hurt ..(even though we don't admit it!)
23. the way they say "I miss you"
24. the way you miss them
25. the way their tears make you want to change the world so that it
doesn't hurt her anymore.....

Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die or
know that you would die without them... it matters not. Because once
in your life, whatever they were to the world they become everything
to you. When you look them in the eyes, traveling to the depths of
their souls and you say a million things without trace of a sound, you
know that your own life is inevitable consumed within the rhythmic
beatings of her very heart. We love them for a million reasons, No
paper would do it justice. It is a thing not of the mind but of the
heart. A feeling. Only felt.

27 Ways to Make a Girl Smile

1. Tell her she is beautiful (not hot, fine, or sexy)

2 . Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.

3 . Kiss her on the forehead.

4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.

5 . Always tell her you love her every second of the day.

6 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.

7 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.

8 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.

9 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.

10 . Write her notes. (she loves them)

11 . Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.

12 . Play with her hair.

13 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.

14 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.

15 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.

16 . Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night . . . just
because you missed her.

17 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.

18. Carve your names into a tree.

19 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.

20 . Give her piggyback rides.

21 . Bring her flowers

22 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.

23 . Look her in the eyes and smile.

24 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.

25 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.

26 . Kiss her in the rain.

27 . If your in love with her . . . tell her.

35 Reasons Why Girls Like Guys

Well here are a few reasons that girls like guys

1. The way they always wear their favorite cologne (which happens to
be the one that you bought them for their birthday)
2. The way the run their hands through your hair
3. The way that they look at you and you want to die right then and there
4. The way that they casually put their arms around you
5. The way that they kiss away your tears
6. ...and the way that they then get mad at how they can't make your
problem go away
7. The way they show off around their friends, even though you both
know that you would love them even if they missed a basket or two
8. How there eyes light up at the result of 3 hours of preparing for your date
9. How they always know just what to say to make you blush
10. How they sometimes think that they know just what to say to make
you feel better, even if you think that it is the worst thing that
they could say
11. The way they hold you close when you are cold
12. How they look at you when your mad at them and all your anger melts away
13. How they always smile when you are together

14. The way that they always let you win any game that you play together
15. ... and then when you point that out to them they pretend to not
know what you are talking about
16. The way that they smile at you
17. The way that you feel when they call to apologize after you had a big fight
18. The way that they say I love you
19. The way that they say I love you in front of their friends
20. The way that they touch and hold you so gently, like they are
afraid that they will break you
21. The way that they kiss you
22. The way that they open their arms to you when you are crying
23. The way that they never admit that you hurt them
24. The way that they try not to cry when they are afraid that they
are losing you
25. The way that they think that they are your big protector, even
though you think that you are theirs.
26. The way that they say I miss you, even though they hate to admit it
27. The way that you miss everything about them when they are gone
28. The way that they remember your special moments, or aniversaries
when you think that they forgot
29. The way that they apologize when they do forget
30. The way that they comfort you when you have a bad day
31. The way that you can't wait to get home and tell them all about your day
32. The way that they write you love letters even if they think that
it is uncool
33. How they would rather be with you then their friends sometime
34. How you want to hug them even though they are all sweaty

35. Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die or
know that you would die without them... it matters not. Because once
in your life, whatever they were to the world they become everything
to you. When you look them in the eyes, traveling to the depths of
their souls and you say a million things without a trace of sound, you
know that your own life is inevitabley comsumed within the rhythimic
beatings of his heart. We love them for a million reasons, No paper
would do it justice. It is a thing a feeling, that is only felt.

40 Things Girls Should Know About Guys

2. If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us.

3. Learn to work the toilet seat: if it's up put it down.

4. Don't cut your hair. Ever.

5. Birthdays, Valentines, and Anniversaries are not quests to see if
he can find the perfect present, again!

6. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer
you don't want to hear.

7. Sometimes, he's not thinking about you. Live with it.

8. Don't ask him what he's thinking about unless you are prepared to
discuss such topics as navel lint, the shotgun formation and monster
trucks.

9. Get rid of your cat. And no, it's not different, it's just like
every other cat.

10. Dogs are better than ANY cats. Period.

11. Sunday = Sports. It's like the full moon or the changing of the
tides. Let it be.

12. Shopping is not a sport.

13. Anything you wear is fine. Really.

14. You have enough clothes.

15. You have too many shoes.

16. Crying is blackmail. Use it if you must, but don't expect us to like it.

17. Your brother is an idiot, you ex-boyfriend is an idiot and your
Dad probably is too.

18. Ask for what you want. Subtle hints don't work.

19. No, he doesn't know what day it is. He never will. Mark
anniversaries on a calendar.

20. Yes, pissing standing up is more difficult than peeing from point
blank range. We're bound to miss sometimes.

21. Most guys own two or three pairs of shoes -- What makes you think
we'd be any good at choosing which pair, out of thirty, would look
good with your dress?

22. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers.

23. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.

24. Your Mom doesn't have to be our best friend.

25. Foreign films are best left to foreigners.

26. Check you oil.

27. Don't give us 50 rules when 25 will do.

28. Don't fake it. We'd rather be ineffective than deceived.

29. It is neither in your best interest or ours to take the quiz together.

30. Anything we said 6 or 8 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
All comments become null and void after 7 days.

31. If you don't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't expect
us to act like soap opera guys.

32. If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the
ways makes you sad and angry, we meant the other one.

33. Let us ogle. If we don't look at other women, how can we know how
pretty you are?

34. You can either ask us to do something OR tell us how you want it
done -- not both.

35. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.

36. Christopher Columbus didn't need directions, and neither do we.

37. Women wearing Wonder bras and low-cut blouses lose their right to
complain about having their boobs stared at.

38. Consider Golf a mini-vacation from you. We need it, just like you do.

39. Telling us that the models in the men's magazines are airbrushed
makes you look jealous and petty and it's certainly not going to deter
us from reading the magazine.

40. The relationship is never going to be like it was the first two
months we were going out.

AND FINALLY, THE NUMBER ONE RULE:
1. Don't rub the lamp if you don't want the genie to come out.

55 Ways to get Rid of your Blind Date

1. At dinner, guard your plate with fork and steak knife, so as to
give the impression that you'll stab anyone, including the waiter, who
reaches for it.

2. Collect the salt shakers from all of the tables in the restaurant,
and balance them in a tower on your table.

3. Wipe your nose on your date's sleeve. Twice.

4. Make funny faces at other patrons, then sneer at their reactions.

5. Repeat every third third word you say say.

6. Give your claim to fame as being voted "Most Festerous" for your
high school yearbook.

7. Read a newspaper or book during the meal. Ignore your date.

8. Stare at your date's neck, and grind your teeth audibly.

9. Twitch spastically. If asked about it, pretend you don't know what
they are talking about.

10. Stand up every five minutes, circle your table with your arms
outstretched, and make airplane sounds.

11. Order a bucket of lard.

12. Ask for crayons to color the placemat. This works very well in
fancier venues that use linen tablecloths.

13. Howl and whistle at womens' legs, especially if you are female.

14. Recite your dating history. Improvise. Include pets.

15. Pull out a harmonica and play blues songs when your date begins
talking about themselves.

16. Sacrifice french fries to the great deity, Pomme.

17. When ordering, inquire whether the restaurant has any live food.

18. Without asking, eat off your date's plate. Eat more from their
plate than they do.

19. Drool.

20. Chew with your mouth open, talk with your mouth full and spray crumbs.

21. Eat everything on your plate within 30 seconds of it being placed
in front of you.

22. Excuse yourself to use the restroom. Go back to the head
waiter/hostess and ask for another table in a different part of the
restaurant. Order another meal. When your date finally finds you, ask
him/her "What in the hell took you so long in the restroom?!?"

23. Recite graphic limericks to the people at the table next to you.

24. Ask the people at the neighboring table for food from their plates.

25. Beg your date to tattoo your name on their derriere. Keep bringing
the subject up.

26. Ask your date how much money they have with them.

27. Order for your date. Order something nasty.

28. Communicate in mime the entire evening.

29. Upon entering the restaurant, ask for a seat away from the
windows, where you have a you have a good view of all exits, and where
you can keep your back to the wall. Act nervous.

30. Lick your plate. Offer to lick theirs.

31. Hum. Loudly. In monotone.

32. Fill your pockets with sugar packets, as well as salt and pepper
shakers, silverware, floral arrangements... i.e anything on the table
that isn't bolted down.

33. Hold a debate. Take both sides.

34. Undress your date verbally. Use a bullhorn.

35. Auction your date off for silverware.

36. Slide under the table. Take your plate with you.

37. Order a baked potato for a side dish. When the waiter brings your
food, hide the potato, wait a few minutes, and ask the waiter for the
potato you "never got". When the waiter returns with another potato
for you, have the first one back up on the plate. Repeat later in the
meal.

38. Order beef tongue. Make lewd comparisons or comments.

39. Get your date drunk. Talk about their philosophy. Get it on tape,
and use good judgement in editing to twist their words around.

40. Discuss boils and lesions, as if from personal experience.

41. Speak in pig latin throughout the meal (Or ubber-dubber language,
or just nonsense).

42. Take a break, and go into the restroom. When you return to the
table, throw a spare pair of underwear on the back of one of the
chairs. Insist that they just need airing out.

43. If they are paying, order the most expensive thing on the menu.
Take one bite.

44. Bring 20 or so candles you, and during the meal get up and arrange
them around the table in a circle. Chant.

45. Save the bones from your meal, and explain that you're taking them
home to your invalid, senile old mother, because it's a lot cheaper
than actually feeding her.

46. Order your food by colors and textures. Sculpt.

47. Take a thermos along, and hide it under the table. Order coffee,
and fill the thermos one cup at a time, taking advantage of the free
refills.

48. Insist that the waiter cuts your food into little pieces. In a
simliar vein, insist that he take a bite of everything on the plate,
to make sure no one poisoned it.

49. Accuse your date of espionage.

50. Make odd allusions to dangerous religious cults.

51. Don't use any verbs during the entire meal.

52. Pass the hat in the restaurant. Use the proceeds (if any) to pay the bill.

53. Break wind loudly. Add color commentary. Bow.

54. Feed imaginary friends, or toy dolls you've brought along.

55. Bring a bucket along. Explain that you frequently get ill.

Dating Ideas

Give the gift of time (wristwatch) with this inscription: "I'll always
have time for you."

Find a four-leaf clover and present it together with this note: "I got
lucky when I found you."

Send him/her a romantic card.

Mail a lock of your hair to your lover.

Ask him to pick a number between 1 and 50, then reward him with that
number of kisses.

Attach a note on the TV remote: "Turn me on instead!"

Before getting out of bed, face your partner, give him/her a kiss and
say: "I'm so thankful I have you in my life."

Place a heart-shaped sticker on your wristwatch to remind you to call.

Hide a pair of earrings in a box of chocolates.

Celebrate the anniversary of when you first met.

Shower together by candlelight.

Warm her bath towel in the dryer for her.

Tell your mate that you - love, adore, admire, cherish, desire, want,
need, prize, esteem, idolize, revere, treasure him/her.

Replace the lightbulbs in your bedroom with candles.

Buy her an outfit while she's trying it on; let her wear it out of the store.

Slip a little love note into his wallet, in between the dollar bills.

Be waiting for him in the bathtub when he returns from work.

Shower together: it's sexy and you'll save water :-)

Give him a lottery ticket. Attch a note: "You are one in a million"

While slow dancing at a party, whisper something sweet to her.

When attending a wedding, whisper: "If I had to do it over, I'd marry
you again."

Send a love note via Fedex - because your love just can't wait.

Make a 20-foot HAPPY BIRTHDAY banner for your sweetheart.

Take an old bottle of unused medicine capsules. Empty the medicine and
insert tiny teeny love notes. Write him a Prescription for Love.

Leave a romantic message on the answering machine.

Put a note in a romance novel saying, "The story is great but our own
love story is the best".

Compose a list: "101 Reasons Why I Love You" Write each reason on a
separate square of paper. Wrap them in a fancy gift box.

Sprinkle perfume on to light bulb. When light is turned on the scent
of the perfume will fill the room.

Difference Between Love and Infatuation

Are you really in love? Or do you think that you are in love?

There is a big difference between Love and infatuation. Some people
can't tell the difference, thinking they are in love but really it is
a deep infatuation. Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands
calling to another.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one
day at a time.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and
eager, but not genuinely happy.
There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces
about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too
closely. It might spoil the dream.

Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection.
It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster
your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are
away.

Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in
your head that you keep replaying.
But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them."
Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are
together, you hope it will end in intimacy.

Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which
makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be
lovers.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're
cheating. Sometimes, you check.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel
your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love
never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It
fills the empty space in your heart.
Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up.
It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in
your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If
there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less
meaning. The secret of our being is not only to live but to have
something to live for.

INFATUATION

Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also.
Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love, though, is love of
devotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in real
love both the emotions and the will are involved. Next, a person "fall
into" infatuation, but "grows into" real love.

Guys, have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought
you'd faint?
This is infatuation! It is based totally on physical attraction. often
you don't know much in-depth about the person you so-called love.
Thus, infatuation is mostly biological. Also remember, never tell a
girl you love her, unless you are willing to marry her.

Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically
selfless.Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and the
feeling than it is in the other person.

Real love is primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to
give instead of get.. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the
other person.

Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love
is strengthened by time and separation.
This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the
contrary, there is great pain in separation if
you are truly in love.

LOVE

Now you know what is infatuation, we will go on to discuss about the
details of a true love. Love is patient. The word translated "patient"
means to wait

Is it Love

1. Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing? and your voice caught
within your chest?
it isn't love, it's like.

2. You can't keep your hand off them, am I right?
it isn't love, it's lust

3. Are you proud and eager to show them off?
it isn't love, it's luck

4. Do you want them because you know they're there?
it isn't love, it's loneliness

5. Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
it isn't love, its loyalty

6. Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want
to hurt them?
it isn't love, its pity

7. Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
it isn't love, it's lack of confidence

8. Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
it isn't love, it's infatuation

9. Do you tell them that everyday they are the one you think of?
it isn't love, it's a lie

10. Are you willing to give up all your favorite things for their sake?
it isn't love, it's charity

11. Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
it isn't love, it's friendship

12. Do you accept their faults because it's part of who they are?
then it's love

13. Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
then it's love

14. Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply, it hurts?
then it's love

15. Do you stay because a blinding incomprehensible mix of pain, and
elations pulls you close and hold you?
then it's love

16. Are you attracted to others but stay with them faithfully with no regrets?
then it's love

17. Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
then it's love

18. And always remember - love isn't one sided!! - Both must love for
LOVE to exist!

Love Questions

There was this guy who loved two gals at the same time but he didn't
know which one he loved more. Someone taught him.

Ask yourself this question and answer it honestly :

"When you are happy, which gal would you want to share your happiness
with?" The one you think of is someone you love.

Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly :

"When you are sad, which gal you want to share your burden with?" The
one you think of is also someone you love.

If you think of the same gal when you are happy & sad, that's the most
perfect. But if you don't think of the same gal, I would advise you to
chose the one you are willing to share your sadness with.

In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many
people that u meet that u can share your happiness with, not necessary
your lover.

If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone.

In sadness, however, there are not many people willing to share your
burden with you. If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I
am sure that person has got to be someone close & an understanding
person to you.

But it shouldn't stop there. If that person only thinks of you when
she is happy, but looks for someone else when she is sad, this lover
is too unstable, she doesn't treat you as someone she can spend the
rest of her life with.

Of course, I will be very happy if I am the first person to share her
happiness. But, if she is sad, I will be too willing to stay by her
side & ease her pain. Only then, will I believe that I hold a very
important position in her heart.

If you are sad, who comes to your mind first?

Love Lesson

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be
gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just
didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him/her,
feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse
the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts
feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are
different.

If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you,
and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess
blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will
know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can
really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your
life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and
give it away.

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.

Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world
around you in anyway you can. There is where many lovers go wrong.
Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need.
They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and
they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than
from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their
love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be
someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.

They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it
can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its
own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe
it or coerce it, or reason it into saying.

You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes
to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart
of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you
should do.

Love always has been and always will be a mystery.
Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.

Real Love

4 person in your life how many have u found?

1st-urself,
2nd-1 u love most,
3rd-1 who love u most,
4th-1 you spend the rest of your life with.

firstly u'll meet the 1 u love most, and learn how love feels.
Because u know how love feels, so u can find the person who loves u most.
When u've experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved,
u'll then know what
it is u need most. Then u will find the person who is most suitable
for u, to be able to spend the rest of your life with.

Sadly,in real life,these 3 people are usually not the same person.
The one u love most doesn't love you. The one,who love u most,is never
the one u love most. And the one u spend your life with,is never the
one u love most or the one who love u most.

He/she is just the person who happens to be at the right place at the
right time.

Which person are u in other people's life?
No person will purposely have a change of heart.
At the point in time when he loves u, he/she really loves u.
But when he/she doesn't love u anymore, he/she really doesn't love u anymore.
When he/she loves u, he/she can't pretend that he/she doesn't.
same goes, when he/she loves u no more, there's no way he/she can
pretend he/she loves u. When a person doesn't love u and wants to
leave u. u must ask yourself if u still love
him/her, If u also don't love him/her anymore, do not keep him/her
just to save your pride. If you still love him/her, you should wish
him/her happiness, and hope that he/she will be with the one he/she
loves most, not stop him/her from it. If you stop him/her from finding
true happiness with the one he/she loves, it shows u already don't
love him/her, And if you don't love him/her, what rights do you have
to blame him/her for a change of heart?

Love is not possessive, if you like the moon, you can't just take it
down and put it in your basin, But the moonlight still shines upon
you. In other words, when you love a person, you can use another
method of possessing the person. Let him/her become a permanent memory
in you life. If you really love a person, you must love him/her for
what he/she is. Love him/her for his/her good points, and the bad, You
can't wish for him/her to become like what you like him/her to be just
because you love him/her. If he/she can't change to become what you
like him/her to be, you don't love him/her anymore. When you really
love a person, you cannot find a reason why you love him/her, You only
know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will
wish to have this person be with you.

Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems
without asking for promises or listing criteria. In a relationship,
you have to put in effort and give in at times, not always be on the
receiving end. Being away from each other is a type of test, If the
relationship isn't strong, then you can only admit defeat. Real love
will never become hate.

When two people are in love, They love to ask each other to swear, to
make promises. Why do they ask each other to swear and promise?
Because they don't trust each other,
they don't trust their lover. These swear and promises are useless;
Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love for u will never
change! We all know that the sky will never fall; the ocean will never
dry, Even if it does happen, are we still alive by then? Be careful
when making promises; don't make promises that you cannot keep. Swear
by things that can never happen, because it can never happen, so no
harm just saying it casually. Rmember? Swearing by things that can
never happen are the most touching!!?
In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but what you do is another;
The 1 saying, doesn't believe; the 1 listening, also doesn't believe.

Meaning of Roses

1 Rose
Exceptional love all concentrated on you.ok0

2 Roses
Two of us deeply in love.

3 Roses
I love you.

6 Roses
I want to be yours.

9 Roses
Love each other eternally.

11 Roses
You are the one I love most in my life.

12 Roses
Satisfactory union and mutual affinity.

13 Roses
Secret admirer.

24 Roses
Remember fondly every moment
(24 hours cannot forget you).

33 Roses
Saying "I love you" with PROFOUND LOVE.

36 Roses
Feeling romantic attachment because you come to me.

44 Roses
Constant unchangeable pledge.

50 Roses
This is "Regretless Love".

56 Roses
My love.

66 Roses
Successful love affair.

99 Roses
Love with understanding makes love eternal.

100 Roses
Harmonious union in a century, remain a devoted couple 'till ripe-old age.

101 Roses
No other love but you.

108 Roses
Please marry me!

111 Roses
Eternal love.

123 Roses
Free love.

144 Roses
Loving you day and night eternally.

365 Roses
Thinking of you everyday, love you everyday.

999 Roses
Everlasting and eternal love.

1001 Roses
Faithful love, 'till forever

Flowers Meaning

Amaryllis Lily
pride and beauty

Azalea
temperance

Bachelor's Buttons
celibacy

Begonia
beware

Camellias
Red: unpretentious excellence
White: exquisite loveliness

Carnations:
Red: my poor heart
Pink: I'll never forget you.
Yellow: disdain
White: sweet and lovely

Chrysanthemum:
Red: I love
White: truth
Yellow: slighted love

Crocus
abuse not
Spring: youthful gladness

Cyclamen
diffidence

Daffodils
regard

Dahlia
changeable

Daisy
innocence

Forget-me-not
constant love

French Marigold
jealousy, discontent

Gladiolus
I'm really sincere

Hibiscus
rare beauty

Hyacinth
sporting
White: discreet loveliness

Hydrangea
Thank you for understanding

Iris
communication; faith; hope

Lilac
Purple: first love
White: youthful innocence

Lily of the Valley
increased happiness

Lily
White: purity

Mistletoe
kiss me

Narcissus
ego

Nasturtium
loyalty

Orchid
love; beauty; refinement

Pansies
consideration

Peony
bashfulness

Ranunculus
radiant charm

Rhodadendron
danger

Roses
Red: love
Yellow: friendship
Pink: young love, romance, first love
White: pure, innocence

Snapdragon
presumption

Sweet William
bravery

Tiger Flower
befriend me friend

Men vs Women

Women

Yes = No

No = Yes

Maybe = No

I'm sorry. = You'll be sorry.

We need = I want

It's your decision. = The correct decision should be obvious by now.

Do what you want. = You'll pay for this later!

We need to talk. = I need to complain.

Sure... go ahead = I don't want you to.

I'm not upset. = Of course I'm upset, you moron!

You're certainly attentive tonight. = Is sex all you ever think about?

This kitchen is so inconvenient. = I want a new house.

I want new curtains. = and carpeting, and furniture, and wallpaper...

Hang the picture there. = NO, I mean hang it there!

I heard a noise. = I noticed you were almost asleep.

Do you love me? = I'm going to ask for something expensive.

How much do you love me? = I did something today you're really not
going to like.

I'll be ready in a minute. = Kick off your shoes and find a good game on T.V.

Is my butt fat? = Tell me I'm beautiful.

You have to learn to communicate. = Just agree with me.

Are you listening to me!? = {Too late, you're dead}

Was that the baby? = Why don't you get out of bed and walk him until
he goes to sleep?

I'm not yelling! = Yes I am yelling because I think this is important.

Men

I'm hungry. = I'm hungry.

I'm sleepy. = I'm sleepy.

I'm tired. = I'm tired.

Do you want to go to a movie? = I'd eventually like to have sex w/you.

Can I take you out to dinner? = I'd eventually like to have sex w/you.

Can I call you sometime? = I'd eventually like to have sex w/you.

May I have this dance? = I'd eventually like to have sex w/you.

Nice dress! = Nice cleavage!

You look tense, let me give you a massage. = I want to fondle you.

What's wrong? = I don't see why you are making such a big deal out of this.

What's wrong? = What meaningless self-inflicted psychological trauma
are you going through now?

What's wrong? = I guess sex tonight is out of the question.

I'm bored. = Do you want to have sex?

I love you. = Let's have sex now.

I love you, too. = Okay, I said it...we'd better have sex now!

Yes, I like the way you cut your hair. = I liked it better before.

Yes, I like the way you cut your hair. = $50.00 and it doesn't look
that much different!

Let's talk. = I am trying to impress you by showing that I am a deep
person so that you'd like to have sex with me.

Will you marry me? = I want to make it illegal for you to have sex
with other guys.

(while shopping) I like that one better. = Pick any freaking dress and
let's go home

How Women Think

FINE
This is the word women use to end an argument when they feel they are
right and you need to shut up. Never use "fine" to describe how a
woman looks - this will cause you to have one of those arguments.

FIVE MINUTES
This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your
football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so it's
an even trade.

NOTHING
This means "something," and you should be on your toes. "Nothing" is
usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn
you inside out, upside down, and backwards. "Nothing" usually
signifies an argument that will last "Five Minutes" and end with
"Fine"

GO AHEAD (With Raised Eyebrows)

This is a dare. One that will result in a woman getting upset over
"Nothing" and will end with the word "Fine"

GO AHEAD (Normal Eyebrows)
This means "I give up" or "do what you want because I don't care" You
will get a "Raised Eyebrow Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed
by "Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in about "Five
Minutes" when she cools off. LOUD SIGH This is not actually a word,
but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A "Loud
Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot at that moment, and wonders
why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you over
"Nothing"

SOFT SIGH
Again, not a word, but a non-verbal statement. "Soft Sighs" mean that
she is content. Your best bet is to not move or breathe, and she will
stay content.

THAT'S OKAY
This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can make to
a man. "That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard
before paying you back for whatever it is that you have done. "That's
Okay" is often used with the word "Fine" and in conjunction with a
"Raised Eyebrow."

GO AHEAD
At some point in the near future! re, you are going to be in some
mighty big trouble. PLEASE DO This is not a statement, it is an offer.
A woman is giving you the chance to come up with whatever excuse or
reason you have for doing whatever it is that you have done. You have
a fair chance with the truth, so be careful and you shouldn't get a
"That's Okay"

THANKS
A woman is thanking you. Do not faint. Just say you're welcome. THANKS
A LOT This is much different from "Thanks." A woman will say, "Thanks
A Lot" when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you
have offended her in some callous way, and will be followed by the
"Loud Sigh." Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the "Loud
Sigh," as she will only tell you "Nothing"

Send this to the men you know to warn them about future arguments they
can avoid if they remember the terminology. And send it to your women
friends to give them a good laugh!

Romance Ideas

Take photos whenever both of you go out. Then use the photos to paste
all around the house to remind you of the happy memories.

Send a dozen roses: 11 red roses and 1 white one.
The note: "In every bunch there's one who stands out - and you are that one."

Float a love note in a bottle in the bathtub.

Write him/her a check for one million kisses

Get tulips and attach this note: "I've got two-lips waiting for you!"

Something for the anniversary.... a lottery ticket and a note: "I hit
the jackpot when I married you."

Bring flowers home for no reason (well, the reason is love)

Bring home one flower a day for one solid month.

Collect romantic and inspirational quotes. Write them in a journal and
give it to your partner as a gift.

Trace "I love you" on a stick of butter or margarine.

Have pillows embroidered with your names, and get monogramed pillow covers.

You can also get some heart-shaped pillows.

Put a new piece of jewelry in her jewelry box and wait for her to notice it.

Use a thesaurus to help you describe your lover: beautiful, angelic,
divine, sublime, alluring, bewitching, stunning, gorgeous, exquisite,
marvelous, magnificent, charming, enticing, fabulous...

Leave a trail of your clothes from the front door to the bedroom.

Scatter rose petals all over the bed.

Cover the room with helium balloons.

Write notes on Post-it notes and stick them around the house.

Call her at work and ask: "Is this the office of the most beautiful
woman in the world?"

Hide a love note in his pants pocket.

Other places to hide a small note:
* under the pillow
* under a dinner plate
* in the refrigerator
* in her jewelry box
* in his shaving kit
* between the pages he/she is reading
* in the take-out box
* in the medicine cabinet

Buy a bunch of fish at a pet store. It doesn't matter what kind. Leave
it for your lover with a note saying " Out of all the fish in the sea,
you are the one for me".

Pull the bag out of your lovers breakfast cereal box and slit a small
hole in it. Insert a love note. Tape up the bag and return it to the
box. What a way to start the day!

Build your lover a web page telling them why you love them so much.
Mention special moments and add some images and cool links to topics
that interest them. Surf the web with them one day and just "stumble
upon it". Or have someone send them an anonymous email with the link
inviting them to the page.

Fill bathtub with warm water sprinkled with rose petals.

Surprise your lover with a kiss before they can finish a sentence.

Give your love an antique compass and say "You will never lose me".
Your love will swear the needle always points to their heart!

Time will Tell

Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived;
happiness, sadness, knowledge, and all the others, including love.

One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was
going to sink to the bottom of the ocean. So all the feelings prepared
their boats to leave. Love was the only one that stayed. She wanted to
preserve the island paradise until the last possible moment. When the
island was almost totally under, Love decided it was time to leave.
She began looking for someone to ask for help.

Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat. Love asked,
"Richness, Can I come with you on your boat?"
Richness answered, " I'm sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold
on my boat and there would be no room for you anywhere."
Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing in a beautiful vessel.
Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please."

"I can't help you", Vanity said, "You are all wet and will damage my
beautiful boat."
Next, Love saw Sadness passing by.
Love said, "Sadness, please let me go with you."
Sadness answered, "Love, I'm sorry, but, I just need to be alone now."
Then, Love saw Happiness.

Love cried out, " Happiness, please take me with you."
But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn't hear Love calling to
him. Love began to cry.

Then, she heard a voice say, "Come Love, I will take you with me." It
was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to
ask the elder his name. When they arrived on land the elder went on
his way. Love realized how much she owed the elder.

Love then found Knowledge and asked, "Who was it that helped me?"
"It was Time", Knowledge answered.
"But why did Time help me when no one else would?", Love asked.

Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity, answered,
"Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."

Top 10 Rejection Lines Given By Women
(and what they actually mean)

10. I think of you as a brother.
(You remind me of that inbred banjo-playing geek in "Deliverance.")

9. There's a slight difference in our ages.
(I don't want to do my dad.)

8. I'm not attracted to you in 'that' way.
(You are the ugliest dork I've ever laid eyes on.)

7. My life is too complicated right now.
(I don't want you spending the whole night or else you may hear phone
calls from all the other guys I'm seeing.)

6. I've got a boyfriend.
(I prefer my male cat and a half gallon of Ben and Jerry's.)

5. I don't date men where I work.
(I wouldn't date you if you were in the same 'solar system', much less
the same building.)

4. It's not you, it's me.
(It's you.)

3. I'm concentrating on my career.
(Even something as boring and unfulfilling as my job is better than dating you.)

2. I'm celibate.
(I've sworn off only the men like you.)

1. Let's be friends.
(I want you to stay around so I can tell you in excruciating detail
about all the other men I meet and have sex with. It's the male
perspective thing.)

In response...The male perspective on the same issue...

Top 10 rejection lines given by Men
(and what they actually mean...)

10. I think of you as a sister.
(You're ugly.)

9. There's a slight difference in our ages.
(You're ugly.)

8. I'm not attracted to you in 'that' way.
(You're ugly.)

7. My life is too complicated right now.
(You're ugly.)

6. I've got a girlfriend.
(You're ugly.)

5. I don't date women where I work.
(You're ugly.)

4. It's not you, it's me.
(You're ugly.)

3. I'm concentrating on my career.
(You're ugly.)

2. I'm celibate.
(You're ugly.)

1. Let's be friends.
(You're sinfully ugly.)

Dating Advice for Men Lesson 1

Appearance - Clothes and shoes

1. Dressed Suitably

2. Iron your clothes

4. Go for well known , respected brands

5. Ask another women for opinion

Dating Advice for Men Lesson2

Appearance - General

1. Shave before going out

2. Bathe often

3. Get your cologne, aftershave out

4. Smile often

5. Do not slouch

Slouching gives a bad impression of a person that is not confident,
weak and no sense of security. Therefore, do what your mum always tell
you. Stand straight and be proud of your height.

Dating Advice for Men Lesson 3

Confidence and Success

1. Know your goals

2. Be yourself

3. Take Risks, Break rules

4. Be knowledgeable

Dating Advice for Men Lesson 4

Behavior

1. Do be chivalrous

2. Do treat women with respect

3. Do maintain eye contact

4. Don't get drunk in front of her

5. Don't get touchy too quickly

Dating Advice for Men Lesson 5

Conversation - what to say and take note

1. Be open minded

2. Talk about common topics

3. Compliment and talk about her dressing

4. Joke

5. Don't talk about sports, politics or other male gender dominated
topics unless she is interested in them too

6. Lastly, Listen

Dating Advice for Women

Appearance

1. Dress Comfortably

Sure. ALl Men like to see women that are dressed in nice clothes
showing some skin. However, that is the reason why women should not
reaveal to much skin. Men are selfish. They like to see other women
dress in various stages of undress and are genuinely embarrassed when
their date is in too little clothes. Moreover, Man do not like to see
women keep on tugging at their clothes to make sure they do not
reveal too much. Elegant and comfortable wear is always a good gauge.
By being comfortable with what you wear, you can also enjoy the
night in peace rather then being worried in your dressing.

2. Dress appropriately

Some of us like to look the best whenever we're outside. Obviously,
it is nautral that all women are vain by nature and men will be
attracted by women who look good. Despite that, the plan can
backfire when u try to do sports in long skirts, or attend a function
in short skirts. Its always important to dress for the occasion and
more important so when you're on a date.

3. Appropriate make up

Its important to put on some make up before going out on a date.
However, you dont want to look ghastly in front of your date by
applying too much make up or applying the wrong make up. Apply
adequate make up for the occasion and you ll look fabulous. If you're
one who absolutely hates make up and know nuts abt applying make up,
just a simple lipstick will do.

4. Smell good

Men are attracted by their primitive senses. That includes the sense
of smell. By smelling good, it helps to give a good impression
especially on the first date. By creating an idendity using the smell
you always used, your date can also remember you more distinctively.
In addition, although women do not sweat as much as men and
generally do not stink, it is also always hygienic to shower often.
After all, your date would not want to kiss someone who haven't
shower for days.

5. Stay in shape

For a long time, women are convinced men are after nothing but sex.
Actually its the truth. A man loves a woman as much as he loves her
body. A toned lean body is a definite turn on for men compared to
one who isnt. Most women might not be born with great bodies. But by
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Dear Love

2008-10-19T02:28:00.000-07:00

Through the darkness
I can see your light
And you will always shine
And I can feel your heart in mine
Your face I've memorized
I idolize just you.

In this cruel and lonely world
I found one true love
My dear love, I found you!

You are My Love

2008-10-19T02:25:00.000-07:00

You are my description of love
You are my description of friend
You are my description of everything
You are my description of beginning to end.

You have put me on a pedestal
You make me feel ten feet tall
You've always been there for me
You've loved me through it all.

You've stood by me through thick and thin
You've always been patient and kind
Just thought I'd let you know
You're the owner of this heart of mine.

So you ask how long I'll love you
Well this is what I have to say
Past, present, future, always
Forever and a day!

Star Of My Life

2008-10-19T02:18:00.000-07:00

A look from you is as blinding as the sun,
As stunning as your eyes I lose myself in.
A look from you is as pure as the clear blue sky,
When I'm with you.

Every minute I'm not around you,
I feel like I left something behind.
Every time I'm not looking at you,
I feel like I am blind.

A smile from you is as electrifying as the moon,
A smile from you is as calming as the stars in the sky,
You are the love of my life!